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Old 06-29-2012, 03:28 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Ladies, how important is sexual intercourse to you?

Also, would you be able to settle for great oral sex and passionate kssing?
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Old 06-29-2012, 04:57 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Ladies, how important is sexual intercourse to you?

It depends on the reason.

I could settle for that if i'm in a good marriage and he had some difficulties.

Why do you ask?
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Old 06-29-2012, 05:38 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Perhaps a mixture of curiosity and male insecurity.

Now can I ask you, what is a good marriage to you with some difficulties?
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It's pretty important; the other things you mention are great, too, but don't leave me feeling complete. But that's just me.
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For me, it's very much a part of physical intimacy. If, however, there's a medical reason that makes it impossible, providing there's proper communication about it, and the rest of the relationship was good, it wouldn't be a big deal for me.
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Why is that so? Considering that it is not so much a conduit to orgasm? Or is there an emotional aspect to intercourse that makes it important to women?
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There is definitely an emotional aspect for women during intercourse. Its like the ultimate connection. Like others have said...if for medical reasons..it wouldnt be important to me...but for other reasons it would definitely be an issue if it was lacking.


I enjoy oral sex..but to me, nothing is better then penetration.
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Why is that so? Considering that it is not so much a conduit to orgasm? Or is there an emotional aspect to intercourse that makes it important to women?
It can be very much a conduit to orgasm... But, yes, the emotional connection is very important.

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There's a huge emotional aspect to intercourse. It seals and cements the bond like nothing else. Yes, it's very important but as others have said if there were medical reasons I could accept it graciously, but if for another reason there would be a problem.
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Penetration is about the emotional connection as much as the physical. It's hugely mental for me--I crave the intimacy that only p-v intercourse can provide. Physically it's very nice, but I can get off in many ways without it.
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I agree with the others. There is a feeling I get, both emotional and physical, that only comes with intercourse. I think when people say the marriage is good they (or at least me) mean that emotionally, spiritually, physically, and finacially and least 3/4 are being met.
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From the looks of it, it would be better for a man to not become emotionally involve with any woman.
Why do you say that?
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Because, speaking as a man, no man can't truly control his penis.
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Because, speaking as a man, no man can't truly control his penis.
If you're talking about ED, OP, communication is key. ED is only a problem in a relationship when it is allowed to become one.
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If you're talking about ED, OP, communication is key. ED is only a problem in a relationship when it is allowed to become one.
You're right of ocurse, but if it is so important to women, why would any man want to then deny her satisfaction by being a detriment to having it?
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