07-06-2012, 11:42 AM
Join Date: May 2011
| | Re: Sex life is boring
Hi mest ~
Ah... yes... boredom. What creativity would ever be spawned if we did not encounter being bored first?
Yep, you can't change your SO's perception of herself...she has to put in the heavy lifting to do that - she has to be willing to drop the 'tape' of negativity that loops continuously in her mind. All you can do is remain positive and consistent in your demeanour toward her to counter-balance the negativity in hers. Maybe she will see the positive reflectiion off of you and be motivated to reset her own internal tape.
So... the boredom. Here's a couple of quotes to think about ... to see where YOUR ROLE in the boring part of your sex life is.
Billy Graham famously said "Only those who want everything done for them are bored
... and ...
"Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame
". ~Erica Jong
So... you are bored? Then take charge. Take charge of your own life, let your girlfriend know that she is free to come along with you if she so desires, and then slowly but surely start to work toward the goal of where you want to be. Do this in your everyday life, do this in your sex life ... you cannot go wrong.
Enter these enchanted woods, You who dare. ~ George Meredith