07-10-2012, 03:09 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
Originally Posted by 7737
Blue - maybe he was pleasantly surprised at YOUR suggestion?!!...
We are human....when we masturbate we are in our own fantasy world...we fantasize about having sex with our partners, doing things with them we've never done in real life...we imagine having sex with, say, Kate Winslet (!!) because in reality it will never happen! Sadly!
If your husband masturbates thinking of you and the times you made love in the ocean and in the shed, then lucky you! Take it as a compliment!
I am taking it as a really really good compliment for a couple reasons. One being that he's never really willingly communicated about him pleasuring himself. Second reason is that now I know what images he's seeing as he thinks of me. I guess there's more reasons too, that by telling me this...it also gave me an insight into what really really excites him, I love that he looks back at those 2 times.
I'm hoping it opens up future dialogue about sex or self pleasuring. I'd like to tell him what images I get when I'm self pleasuring. It will give him a clue what I think is really really erratic. Posted via Mobile Device