Re: Wife is into crossdressing
I think it has something to do with submission. Sometimes, sex can be mixed up with the excitement of making your mate submit to you. I bet it has something to do with that.
If it bothers you, you need to set some boundries and limits as to how far you are willing to go with this. If you let this continue unbounded then its your responsibility for where it leads. If you set your boundry and she doesnt respect that and tries to hassle you over it, it shows how much respect she really has for you, and once that is revealed, its up to you to decide what you want to do.
Who knows, she might respect you and love you too much to lose you over this. If not...hey, its your life.