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After my wife and I were married for sometime, she got this idea she wanted to add some kinkiness in our sex life. She suggested I dress up in some of her clothes and have a night together at our house. She enjoyed it and I felt wierd. Ever since this night she wants me to dress up all the time, when we are intimate. anyone else have this problem?
As far as I am concerned it all comes under the heading of role-play. Unless it starts to interfere with everyday life I would not worry. If you give someone what they most want sexually, you will be making them very very happy. A lot of people have trouble articulating what they want. She does not.
I think it has something to do with submission. Sometimes, sex can be mixed up with the excitement of making your mate submit to you. I bet it has something to do with that.
If it bothers you, you need to set some boundries and limits as to how far you are willing to go with this. If you let this continue unbounded then its your responsibility for where it leads. If you set your boundry and she doesnt respect that and tries to hassle you over it, it shows how much respect she really has for you, and once that is revealed, its up to you to decide what you want to do.
Who knows, she might respect you and love you too much to lose you over this. If not...hey, its your life.
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Re: Wife is into crossdressing
Originally Posted by Fritz
I guess the big deal is is it normal to dress in your spouse's clothes?
If you define normal as an activity that the average couple engage in, then no it is not normal. Is it wrong, not that I am aware of. The question is really up to you if it is something you want to engage in or does it “feel” wrong to you.