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Old 04-19-2009, 03:53 PM   #1 (permalink)
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After my wife and I were married for sometime, she got this idea she wanted to add some kinkiness in our sex life. She suggested I dress up in some of her clothes and have a night together at our house. She enjoyed it and I felt wierd. Ever since this night she wants me to dress up all the time, when we are intimate. anyone else have this problem?
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Old 04-19-2009, 10:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Wow that's different, ah no I haven't been asked that and doubt I would anyways.
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Old 04-20-2009, 02:50 AM   #3 (permalink)
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How long have you been doing this?

Have you worn her clothes out and where?

Sounds intriguing to me, I have some ideas to why, but would like to hear more before I give my opinion.

My wife has never asked this of me, I don't think I would mind doing this for her within our house, but not out the door.

She asked to give me a facial one time, I let her.
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Old 04-20-2009, 03:11 AM   #4 (permalink)
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...she's a closet homo....
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Old 04-20-2009, 03:46 AM   #5 (permalink)
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LOL tim, I was thinking more along of "closet Bi-sexual" That she is Bi-curious to try a woman.

but hey, close enough
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Old 04-20-2009, 06:10 AM   #6 (permalink)
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As far as I am concerned it all comes under the heading of role-play. Unless it starts to interfere with everyday life I would not worry. If you give someone what they most want sexually, you will be making them very very happy. A lot of people have trouble articulating what they want. She does not.
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Old 04-20-2009, 07:47 AM   #7 (permalink)
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How long have you been doing this?

Have you worn her clothes out and where?

Sounds intriguing to me, I have some ideas to why, but would like to hear more before I give my opinion.

My wife has never asked this of me, I don't think I would mind doing this for her within our house, but not out the door.

She asked to give me a facial one time, I let her.
Yes I have worn her clothers out of the house, mostly her intimate clothes underneath my regular clothes.

What is a facial?
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Old 04-20-2009, 08:22 AM   #8 (permalink)
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sounds interesting, but my wife is gonna have to buy bigger undies
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Old 04-21-2009, 12:32 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I think it has something to do with submission. Sometimes, sex can be mixed up with the excitement of making your mate submit to you. I bet it has something to do with that.

If it bothers you, you need to set some boundries and limits as to how far you are willing to go with this. If you let this continue unbounded then its your responsibility for where it leads. If you set your boundry and she doesnt respect that and tries to hassle you over it, it shows how much respect she really has for you, and once that is revealed, its up to you to decide what you want to do.

Who knows, she might respect you and love you too much to lose you over this. If not...hey, its your life.
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I don't see what the big deal is!
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Old 04-21-2009, 11:10 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I guess the big deal is is it normal to dress in your spouse's clothes?
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Old 04-21-2009, 01:17 PM   #12 (permalink)
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It's normal if you are comfortable doing so...it's one of those things that are "naughty" and different...and on one knows, especially when you are out in public wearing her undies...

If you don't have a problem with it and it's helping keep things spicy in the bedroom, then relax, indulge her fantasy and enjoy the rewards for doing so...

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Old 04-21-2009, 01:23 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I guess the big deal is is it normal to dress in your spouse's clothes?
If you define normal as an activity that the average couple engage in, then no it is not normal. Is it wrong, not that I am aware of. The question is really up to you if it is something you want to engage in or does it “feel” wrong to you.
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Old 04-22-2009, 12:00 PM   #14 (permalink)
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It's normal if you are comfortable doing so...it's one of those things that are "naughty" and different...and on one knows, especially when you are out in public wearing her undies...

If you don't have a problem with it and it's helping keep things spicy in the bedroom, then relax, indulge her fantasy and enjoy the rewards for doing so...

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I am trying to understand why.
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Old 04-22-2009, 01:14 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Because it's a fetish for her, a turn-on...just as you have the same kind of things that she does that turn you on that she may or may not understand...

Relax and go with it...as far as you are comfortabl with...and enjoy yourself and her.

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