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Re: Does the cum, precum or your own juice on the wang prevent you from giving good o
No, it doesn't prevent me operating freely as you put it! I don't think the taste of cum is particularly pleasant as such but it's not offensive to me at all. Same for if it's been inside me and then sucking it again..not something I overly seek to do but I have no problem doing it to pleasure my other half.
Re: Does the cum, precum or your own juice on the wang prevent you from giving good o
None of the above. My husband's is bitter. Nothing we have tried has changed it in any way. I also have a horrible gag reflex. I use numbing mints for my gag reflex, and it helps a bit with the taste as well. She could try flavored gels to counteract the taste. Funny thing... when I give him oral after he has been inside me, my taste kinda neutralizes his lol. I can understand why she would have the "ewwww" mentality about that. A lot of women do. I used to. But, after 12 years of marriage.... I have changed my mind.
What is her issue with oral? You said she thinks the pre-cum and cum are disgusting. Is it specifically the taste or something else?
I also agree with bandit. Taste and see. And yes, hubby has kissed me after I have given him oral. So, it's likely he has gotten at least a small taste lol.
Re: Does the cum, precum or your own juice on the wang prevent you from giving good o
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Originally Posted by Maricha75
What is her issue with oral? You said she thinks the pre-cum and cum are disgusting. Is it specifically the taste or something else?
I also agree with bandit. Taste and see. And yes, hubby has kissed me after I have given him oral. So, it's likely he has gotten at least a small taste lol.
I think the taste and the smell.... more specifically the taste of precum and both of cum...
I kiss her all the time and can do anything after her giving me oral or whatever... I have even given her a small rimming but she says no - I think its because she will not want to do it to me
Re: Does the cum, precum or your own juice on the wang prevent you from giving good o
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Originally Posted by bandit.45
Well dip your finger in it and taste it yourself. Best way to know.....
I've done that. Seems relatively inoffensive to me--certainly no worse than eating lima beans. But my wife finds it extraordinary distasteful now--although she didn't in the past.
So while in some cases it might be the taste or consistency, in as many cases or more it seems it's some sort of mental block.
But then, my wife used to like pesto and now she can't stand anything made with basil. These things are a mystery to me.
Re: Does the cum, precum or your own juice on the wang prevent you from giving good o
I love my husbands cum and will gladly lick myself off him . Having said that, I have had instances in the past where the person I was with didn't taste good or I didn't like the texture, etc. In those instances I just made sure I swallowed really fast lol. You get it over with and you have a happy b/f who doesn't know the difference.
Re: Does the cum, precum or your own juice on the wang prevent you from giving good o
I don't mind it at all. It actually makes me feel good knowing that I'm making HIM feel good. I enjoy going down on him and it turns me on to hear the noises he makes.
As for my own stuff on him, that doesn't bother me either. It actually REALLY turns him on when I kiss him after he goes down on me so I've gotten used to it.