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Old 07-16-2012, 08:14 PM   #31 (permalink)
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No to hands. Yes to looking up at him while you do it.
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Old 07-16-2012, 08:42 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Oh yes. Eye contact is good.
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Old 07-16-2012, 09:24 PM   #33 (permalink)
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No to hands. Yes to looking up at him while you do it.
No hands????

Like no hands on your member??, or no hands touching you period???

During a blow job I get very handsy. I have this sudden need to touch everything.

My husband is not cool with the prostate message. *shruggs*

Every where is fair game.
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He's saying a mouth only bj sometimes is good. Hands are cheating. We know you're using hands to avoid going too deep! Lol.
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I kinda like a bit of nibbling.

Prostate is good.

Go from deep - to backing off and focusing on the tip - back to deep again. The tip is very sensitive and sometimes doesn't get the love it deserves.
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He's saying a mouth only bj sometimes is good. Hands are cheating. We know you're using hands to avoid going too deep! Lol.
Not me...I do it for variety. So, is using hair with the hand also "cheating"...HA

I always thought guys liked a little hand action with mouth action???

I mean a blow job is great and all....but throw in teabagging and it's a whole different world.

But I don't cheat deep throating. I have good days when I can and bad days when I can't.

I'm very up front about it before hand.
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No to hands. Yes to looking up at him while you do it.
Yes! No hands can be amazing. You'd think it would be less sensation, but for me it is not. Try putting both your hands on his azz instead.

As for the finger in the rear thing....also very good, but please, use a little lube of some type! We don't want to ask for it, but man, them nails can really be quite uncomfortable otherwise!
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deep throat mixed with teasing the tip and the area just under the tip. i like to use my hand and my mouth sometimes too.

my favorite move is starting at the base and licking up the underside of it

rub underneath the boys,cup the boys,swirl your tongue around lightly as your going down the shaft...

alternate between fast and slow.

moan or hum too.

I've got lots of moves but I can't share all my secrets
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Wow...some lucky guys out there. It's been...20 damn years since her mouth was even near there, and never once to completion.

I was told just the other day that I will never get a bj as long as I live. That's only another 35 years or so.

Carry on, I'm going to go beat my head against a wall.
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The worst BJ is better then the best day doing ???? what was that again. Just be willing and wanting to please and it is all good. Knowing that your partner is doing it to please you and you did not have to beg or plead or barter for it makes it great.
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He's saying a mouth only bj sometimes is good. Hands are cheating. We know you're using hands to avoid going too deep! Lol.
Right, and they don't only use hands to stop from going too deep but when they start getting a little tired of it. No, just keep going.
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Oh yes. Eye contact is good.
Yes....eye contact is a must!


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I have just two words to say about this whole thread...
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some eye contact is very good, I guess it depends on the person, dont like it to turn into a staring contest
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Drive it like you stole it.
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