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I do what I call the motor boat on my wife. Stick my tongue out a little and blow air out so that it vibrates. This Drives her crazy and vibrates like crazy, in fact every women I have ever done this on in the past has said that it was the best oral they had ever experienced. So yes men can compete with a vibrator with the right technique. My wife can have rapid multiple orgasms with this technique.
- use a flat tongue (think ice cream cone)
- make eye contact
- tell me how hot it makes you...bonus points if I can feel your breath on my clit while you tell me
- play with your c0ck while doing it (or let me do it)
- let it be wet and messy, wetter the better, drooling is hot
- start slowly, lick the outside of my lips and all over before beginning to concentrate on my clit. Let me be at the point of begging you before you focus only on my clit
- hands are nice...lubed fingertips running down the outside lips at the same time you are licking is great, gently spreading the lips is nice
- kiss my clit as you kiss my mouth, use lips and tongue, soft slow sensual
- sucking the clit is nice but gently!!
-focus on the point right underneath the clit when I am close to O, flat tongue, swirls and side to side is nice.
- once you begin working with the clit, don't stop your rhythm. Teasing me at this point is just frustrating and takes me farther from O. If you've got the rhythm going...take it all the way home
- immediately after O, slide up and slip your c0ck inside so I can O again. Don't be afraid to kiss me afterwards.
No -
- pointed tongue, no one likes to feel like they are being probed!
- 1-2 day stubble, either clean shaven or wait till it grows out enough to be soft...otherwise it feels like a pin cushion
- being too rough and forceful on my clit before you have me warmed up. Ouch.
- holding me down in any way, let me pull away for a second if I am overstimulated, let me ride you or rock my hips, trust that I know how to get myself off
- stopping when you are right about to push me over the edge...I could kill a guy! Posted via Mobile Device
I like to 69 that keeps my husbands tongue where it should be. Also keeps it flat. I'm also able to deep throat him better this way. My husband and I showed each other where our most sensitive spots are.
Now we know where to play around and on.
Didn't Sam Kinesin do a skit on the alphabet? I like cursive.
DON'T do a tit for tat with oral sex (e.g., "if she doesn't do me, then I won't do her"). It may be the only way your woman may be able to easily orgasm, and cutting that off could decrease her desire for sex and you.
Sorry, but that was my ex-wife and thus, I did give her oral every time we had sex (which was about once every 3-6 weeks ). I was ok with that, but it was never reciprocated.
Never again. No oral my way, none her way and I wouldn't even care if that was a breaking point for her. I don't expect it to be an equal thing, but there has to be some flow both ways.
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Originally Posted by ScarletBegonias
i used to not like oral.had nothing to do with the man's skills or lack thereof.I wasn't confident enough in myself to let go and enjoy it.i was always worried if i smelled bad,tasted bad,looked gross down there.
I ruined the experience for myself.i didn't start to love it until i learned to love my vag
What exactly got you past that? My fiancee has let me down there exactly twice, and the last time was 4+ years ago. I enjoy oral, so this is a bit frustrating for me, and she sites a lot of the issues you listed here.
What exactly got you past that? My fiancee has let me down there exactly twice, and the last time was 4+ years ago. I enjoy oral, so this is a bit frustrating for me, and she sites a lot of the issues you listed here.
I can't take credit for getting myself through it.My SO is actually the one who helped me.Anytime he wanted to do it I'd say the usual 'noooo not right now,i haven't showered since this morning and i feel gross.'
and he'd ALWAYS reply with things like 'i don't like when you're fresh out of the shower.if I wanted to eat soap,I'd go in the bathroom and gnaw on a bar of it.I want to taste YOU.Smell YOU.NOT your soap. It isn't fair to deprive me of fully experiencing you just because YOU don't like it.You're a girl,you don't know how amazing your vagina tastes and smells...but I crave you constantly and just once I want you to let me enjoy you when i want to!!'
After hearing that over and over enough,I figured well if it wasn't as great as he's saying it is,he wouldn't be so persistent and insistant upon being down there.what guy or anyone for that matter willfully exposes themselves to something they think it repulsive and nasty tasting and gross smelling? he must be telling the truth.
it took a long time before i let him examine things down there.i never realized how turned on he got just from looking at my area.he likes just lying down there and rubbing things with his fingers,staring at it like it's a beautiful piece of artwork.
his intense love of my vag helped me develop a respect and love for it too
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Re: Dos and Dont during Cunnilingus 
). I was ok with that, but it was never reciprocated.
