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I can't remember the last time my husband and I really kissed, and I mean tongue action! We peck on the lips all the time but never tongue, no making out. Even when we have sex there is no kissing. I think it really starts with me and I just don't want to. He doesn't seem to care and it never comes up. The thought of kissing is great but I don't enjoy saliva in my mouth, even if it is from my husband. Ok what the hell is wrong with me?
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I don't know what's "wrong" with you (if anything) but kissing is huge for me! I love it! It's incredibly intimate, in some ways, more intimate than sex. My experience is that it's extremely important for me.
I remember reading a study which stated that oxytocin (the bonding hormone) is released in women by touch and released in men by kissing.
Also, kissing gives me an idea of what kind of partner she will be in bed. I love to kiss my partner before sex, during sex, and after sex and when we're on a walk and when we're in the movies and...
I don't know what's "wrong" with you (if anything) but kissing is huge for me! I love it! It's incredibly intimate, in some ways, more intimate than sex. My experience is that it's extremely important for me.
I remember reading a study which stated that oxytocin (the bonding hormone) is released in women by touch and released in men by kissing.
Also, kissing gives me an idea of what kind of partner she will be in bed. I love to kiss my partner before sex, during sex, and after sex and when we're on a walk and when we're in the movies and...
I like it - a lot!!!
Ahhhh so I guess you and I don't have chance together huh? lol
Re: Does kissing matter in a marriage or during sex?
I love kissing my hubby. I think he would say the same. Sex wouldn't be the same if we didn't kiss before, during and after sex. Sex would seem less passionate without the kissing.
I don't get saliva in my mouth when he kisses me. Am I so in the moment and not noticing it? Maybe. Or more likely he doesn't kiss with a lot of saliva. I can see why that would be turn off to you so you need to teach him to kiss you the way you like.
How old are you? Have you liked kissing with any other man?
I love kissing my hubby. I think he would say the same. Sex wouldn't be the same if we didn't kiss before, during and after sex. Sex would seem less passionate without the kissing.
I don't get saliva in my mouth when he kisses me. Am I so in the moment and not noticing it? Maybe. Or more likely he doesn't kiss with a lot of saliva. I can see why that would be turn off to you so you need to teach him to kiss you the way you like.
How old are you? Have you liked kissing with any other man?
I am 32 and yes I think I did but I can't really remember. Hmm maybe it is the way my husband kisses but I can't even remember that. I just think of a lot of tongue and saliva - not my thing! I would give the man a BJ before wanting to make out. At the same time, if I see a hot movie make out scene, I wish I could do that too.
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My H absolutely loves kissing. Instant boner. It is the craziest thing to me even now. He absolutely wants to make out all the time.
Me? I really don't like kissing that much. Its not him, its just how I am and have always been.
I do it anyway because I know H likes it. I am like you...the thought of it is just yuck. But I seem to have a threshold, if I kiss for a certain amount of time I can get past the initial yuck and get into it.
I just make myself do it and don't give myself time to think about it.
One of the problems we have is that H comes on too strong when kissing. He is so over excited about it that he goes for tongue right away and wants to pin me down and tongue rape me! Its too much for me. We are working on it. Posted via Mobile Device
My H absolutely loves kissing. Instant boner. It is the craziest thing to me even now. He absolutely wants to make out all the time.
Me? I really don't like kissing that much. Its not him, its just how I am and have always been.
I do it anyway because I know H likes it. I am like you...the thought of it is just yuck. But I seem to have a threshold, if I kiss for a certain amount of time I can get past the initial yuck and get into it.
I just make myself do it and don't give myself time to think about it.
One of the problems we have is that H comes on too strong when kissing. He is so over excited about it that he goes for tongue right away and wants to pin me down and tongue rape me! Its too much for me. We are working on it. Posted via Mobile Device
Glad I am not alone! Maybe I need to try again and see if we can improve on it too.
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Kissing is a must for me.
Before , during and after sex .
Not just the " wet ones "on her mouth,
All over!
I love the smell of her skin,especially in the morning while she's still in bed.
I like to kiss he tummy ,navel....get the picture.
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Does kissing matter in a marriage or during sex? 
But I don't fool around with married women so even if you loved kissing, I'm afraid it wouldn't work. 
