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I have always been a 'one and done' as they say type. So I'm wondering for those of you (or your spouse) that multi, what goes on in a typical session?
Is it multi-O because you come once through clitoral stimulation and then later through vaginal..or just multi-o-ing continually through penetrative sex?
I know I sound quite naive, but as someone who has never cum through penetration alone I am interested to know how the other half live!
If I'm going to have multiples, the first is always through clitoral stimulation. I can then usually have another through penetration or more clitoral. A couple of weeks ago my guy decided it would be fun to see how many I could have through oral. I got to 5 before I was a limp dishrag and literally begging for a break. That was awesome.
From what I have seen with my wife,its like a " roller coaster " sort of thing that keeps coming in waves until she can no longer stand the stimulation.
It takes some preparation. Whenever it happens to her usually it after some long foreplay, like sensual massage etc and it builds.Then penetration and it ends up with her convulsions squeezing me out.
[ If i'm not timing it properly ]
Sometimes she gets goose bumps all over.
[ I guess that's where they got the term " screaming orgasm" from
But after such an orgasm,like the above poster said ,she is as limp as a wet dishrag. She literally cannot stand on her feet because her legs are trembling and wobbly.
With us, as a general rule, it all starts with extended foreplay, and her first orgasms are almost always clitoral. Once she has a clitoral orgasm (or more...), she can have more of them through manual g-spot stimulation, or PIV penetration.
We also do some variations of tantric sex where I penetrate her deeply with little or no thrusting, and rub her clit with my fingers or with a vibe.
Last night, she had at least half a dozen orgasms following this general prescription.
If I'm going to have multiples, the first is always through clitoral stimulation. I can then usually have another through penetration or more clitoral. A couple of weeks ago my guy decided it would be fun to see how many I could have through oral. I got to 5 before I was a limp dishrag and literally begging for a break. That was awesome.
Now there is a keeper. :P Posted via Mobile Device
You need a man willing to put the time/effort in. I don't have one of those so I've been a one and done female for decades now.
I've had multiples before with other men but not with my husband. He's a LD and that just doesn't bode well for this type of thing. I'm grateful to get ANY sex. LOL
I've always been "one and done".... and it's always, only, been clit. So now... I think I'm gonna see about getting him to try as many as possible one day/night!
I've always been able to have multiple orgasms, both clitoral and g-spot. I feel like I can have many "types" of each of those, as well, if that makes sense. Some are in waves, and sometimes I get a nice build up and release. Usually clitoral first works the best, and I will have several of those before penetration, and then I have them fairly quickly upon penetration. If I'm put into the right position, I can have an amazing g-spot orgasm complete with squirting, and then after that I have waves and waves. I never realized that this was a gift until I divorced a year ago. My new man sure takes that gift to a new level, as my ex was lower drive. We try out all kinds of things. I never needed a vibrator previously, but we've used those and it takes things to another level. Sometimes, I wish I could wrap all those orgasms into one bigger one, but I know that's selfish. I love sex!
To, I guess because I'm a guy, its one and done, then a refractory period - but I just don't relate to how you can call an ongoing wave an orgasm, to me the receding sensation is equal part to the climax, a full orgasm for me requires both buildup and proper resolution, then give me a few minutes to get my bearings again and I'm ready to go.
My ex W orgasmed like me, and I liked being able to "Edge" her and bring her over the edge then hold her as she enjoyed the pure pleasure of the cruise back down. The other women I've known sexually didn't really "climax" like that, just were in a heightened state of arousal until they couldn't take it anymore - I once asked if she came, and she looked at me like "you couldn't tell?" of course everything was soaked, and she made lots of nice noises, but no I couldn't tell, her body didn't spasm, her toes didn't curl, there wasn't that sexy paralyzed silence while going over the top of the summit.
My preference, as far as being the pleaser, is for the one-hard-O rather than the multiple-ongoing waves, simply because I can relate to the hard-O and know that what I am doing is working. I suppose I like that reassurance. It is also just really sexy to see. But I'm not THAT picky, lol, I will take what I can get.
For my wife, multiples start with a clitoral orgasm as part of foreplay (when we decide to go for it). That almost acts like a primer, making it easier for her to reach additional orgasms through plain old intercourse, usually one but sometimes two. Then there are the times when she sort of combines the vaginal orgasm with a clitoral orgasm by touching herself when I'm inside. Those seem to be the strongest and longest-lasting of all, especially if her last one is synchronized with mine. She claims that my orgasm triggers one for her, although I don't understand why.
My wife gets so sensitive after her first that there is rarely a second, and never a third without a break. How do you ladies deal with the sensitivity issue?
My wife gets so sensitive after her first that there is rarely a second, and never a third without a break. How do you ladies deal with the sensitivity issue?
Quick break (30 seconds to a minute or so) and then go again. Like Almostrecovered said, the first takes the longest and is the hardest to get.
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Talk me through a multiple orgasm! 
