Re: Stop begging, groveling, and working overtime for SEX from your SPOUSE!
I was not angry, not at all. Just...baffled.
And it's wonderful that you and your husband have needs met. But I disagree with you that it's not helpful for people to feel they are entitled to sex.
Do you so the unbelievable number of people on this board who are jumping through hoops, begging, screaming, crying, and bargaining for sex? A lot of people on this board have not come to the understanding that they are, indeed, entitled to a sexual relationship with their spouse. IMO too many people around here are acting like sex is a bargaining chip, or a rare gift, or something to be worked extra hard to achieve solely as a "reward".
Maybe if some of these people realized that they DESERVE sex, and that it's their spouses duty to provide that sex to them, just as it is their duty to love, cherish, and honor, than maybe they'd get off the merry go round of frustration, pain, and anger, and start either putting their foot down and changing things, or ponying up to leave.