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I feel really dumb posting this, especially as a married person, BUT...
where is the G spot and what are the best positions to get to it? Posted via Mobile Device
It is a spongy feeling area on the top about 2-3 inches from the vaginal entrance. If you stick your 1 or 2 fingers in facing up wards and you flex them towards you and kind of upward as if you're telling someone to "come here" you'll feel it, and she'll definitely feel it.
It is a spongy feeling area on the top about 2-3 inches from the vaginal entrance. If you stick your 1 or 2 fingers in facing up wards and you flex them towards you and kind of upward as if you're telling someone to "come here" you'll feel it, and she'll definitely feel it.
Yes. CUT YOUR FINGER NAILS! Dont for get to file the edges smooth.
I routinely hit the g-spot with penis by missionary position, holding her legs back just below the knees (backside of knees) and while I am more upright. Sometimes, she'll use a vibrator on her clit, with the end of the vib pushing down at the base of my penis... that transmits through into her... oh wow... I'm horny now!
researrch technique on this. Its not just a matter of finding it and going at it like crazy. As with everything else timing is everything. I wont go into to much at this point. I know what works for my wife but every woman is different so do yyour homewotk and then communicate communicate communicate. She will put you on the right track if you listen to her and follow her direction. Posted via Mobile Device
QS... don't feel bad that your SO can't find it either. Every time my husband has tried, he comes close, but then... it's like there is a spot RIGHT next to it that makes me go from "OH MY GOD"...to "GTFA from me!!"... Seriously. So, we have not been able to find it, no matter how much we have tried... No matter what methods we have attempted as well. Doesn't bother me. Clit orgasms work for me.
Thanks guys :-) i'm getting some ideas and feeling some hope that things can improve for us.
For the record, I am the wife, which makes me feel even silier asking that question.
I have been able to orgasm via oral + fingers, so I must have had some idea of where my g spot is. I have never been able to orgasm by intercourse, even though I still enjoy it, but would really like to. We have been content with missionary, but thinking we should be open to some variations. Posted via Mobile Device
If you can orgasm with oral and manual stimulation (assuming clitoral stimulation, or some combination of clitoral and penetration), you should try having your husband penetrate you with his c*ck immediatley after orgasm, you might be able to have additional vaginal/g-spot orgasm(s) from that.
I realised that it's the place that's stimulated when he does fingers plus oral. Of the few times I have had a poke around, I thought that spot felt sensitive, but more in a sore way than stimulating. But it obviously works when I am stimulated already.
So... what would be the best position for him to hit my G spot? Also, is there such thing as a position where he can stimulate the outside while he is penetrating Posted via Mobile Device
1]I realised that it's the place that's stimulated when he does fingers plus oral. Of the few times I have had a poke around, I thought that spot felt sensitive, but more in a sore way than stimulating. But it obviously works when I am stimulated already.
2]So... what would be the best position for him to hit my G spot? Also, is there such thing as a position where he can stimulate the outside while he is penetrating Posted via Mobile Device
1]Yes , in order to get to the G-Spot you must be in a heightened state of arousal. works better that way.
2]Different positions work best for different people. One way to hit the G-Spot during penetration and stimulate the other areas as well is through a variation of " doggie style " sex position."
Reverse Cowgirl" also does the trick,just lean backwards [ prop your hands on his chest while facing away from him.] instead of forward. Another way is to let him enter from behind you while you are standing ,[ keep your legs closed] and bend over.
I find this position to be the easiest,lie on your back ,and let him kneel in front of you.Place a pillow beneath your hips and place your legs over his shoulder or on his chest. As he enters and begins to thrust, just tilt your hips upwards a little,until you feel the spot being stimulated. His hands are also free to do whatever you want him to do.
Please remember different positions are more effective with different couples. Plus there are other factors such as your partner's shape ,size , curvature etc. Also your body in proportion to his. [ Is he tall, short etc.]
Hope this helps a little.
It is a spongy feeling area on the top about 2-3 inches from the vaginal entrance. If you stick your 1 or 2 fingers in facing up wards and you flex them towards you and kind of upward as if you're telling someone to "come here" you'll feel it, and she'll definitely feel it.
this is correct except for the last sentence, not all women can enjoy G-spot orgasms or pleasurable sensations. More can't than can.
My wife also needs clitoral stimulation; she cannot orgasm through G spot alone. Her on top works because her clit comes in contact with the base of my penis with an added bonus of me being able to suck on her perfect little tits. That really sends her! We also use a position where she is on her back and I am on my side. One of my legs is between hers. This leaves my hand free to stimulate her clit. Yet another is her on the edge of the bed on her back with a Liberator wedge under her hips. She then puts her legs on my shoulders as I stand at the edge of the bed. She well use a vibrator on her clit. Hope this helps.
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If you can orgasm with oral and manual stimulation (assuming clitoral stimulation, or some combination of clitoral and penetration), you should try having your husband penetrate you with his c*ck immediatley after orgasm, you might be able to have additional vaginal/g-spot orgasm(s) from that.
Unfortunately, that doesn't always work either. My husband penetrates immediately after I orgasm from oral/manual....still no g-spot orgasms.
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