07-30-2012, 03:10 PM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: How best to approach the topic? Help!
Honestly, it truely varies. Lately, the sex has been shorter. He doesn't really seem interested in going a second time.
Sex decreased a lot when we gained a few pounds, now he's down a weight he's comfortable with. I've always been more in shape than him and I work in women's health. I do pelvic floor excercises regularly and I just never thought about it for men.
But yes, the difficultly, in communication is more important. I know it's very difficult to talk about it for him. Counseling would be a good, but he's generally not a fan.