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Old 08-05-2012, 05:13 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I think about sex for hours over a 24 hour period. When I'm driving, when I'm walking the aisles in the supermarket, when I'm doing the dishes, going for a walk.. I think about it alllll the time!

Needless to say I am HD. Unfortunately my husband is ND and I would imagine sex only crosses his mind a couple of times a year. Maybe if I trained myself to not think about sex every spare moment I would lower my drive..hmm interesting concept!
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Old 08-05-2012, 05:20 AM   #2 (permalink)
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There are only 3 occasions when I think about it. Morning, afternoon and evening. Best guess, my W may think about it every now and then, but not while we're actually having it.
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Old 08-05-2012, 09:21 AM   #3 (permalink)
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i think about it all day,wife maybe once every blue moon.
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Old 08-05-2012, 09:57 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Both gate and I think about it all day.. every day.
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Old 08-05-2012, 11:47 AM   #6 (permalink)
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what were you saying? Sorry I was thinking about sex.
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I think about it all the time and he thinks about it most of the time
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I find it hard to recall any walking moment that I don't think about it in some form or another. As for my wife, I believe that she only thinks about it in a positive way a handful of times per month. Slight improvements of late; hopefully the trend continues.
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I think about it a lot. My husband probably every day or so more if I bring it up. A huge improvement so I'll take it.
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Old 08-05-2012, 01:27 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I think about it more than my husband. All day, everyday for me... maybe once a week (best guess) for him. =/
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Every single time that I think about my husband while he's at work.when I look at him from across the room.when we snuggle on the couch.when we cuddle in bed.lol
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Old 08-05-2012, 03:16 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I love that most comments are from women. Shows there are no stereotypes.
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Old 08-05-2012, 03:55 PM   #13 (permalink)
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There was a time it was nearly every 6 seconds (what they say about men in their youth).... it was UN...RELENTING, I would describe it as my mind taking a Hi-jacking... even entertained the idea I had a sex addiction. But I was having so much fun with it...I didn't want it to stop, even rented porn, I wanted to FEED it .....but at the same time it was a bit of a curse...cause my husband couldn't keep up with my insatiable desire....

Had he had a bad attitude or pushed me away, It wouldn't have been good...I would have felt so alone, like someone poured a bucket of ice water on my newly found excitement.

This has since passed..... I've been back down from the clouds for a couple years now, I still think alot about sex though, that experience was just too enlightening to let go....But a blessing.....now I can accually concentrate on other purruits -besides "getting my fix". (we used to joke with each other I needed my FIX).

I would say I think about it a little more than my husband, hanging out on a sex forum talking about it -can do that to you!! ... but our sex drives are pretty much in sinc these days.
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Old 08-05-2012, 04:24 PM   #14 (permalink)
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It's usually a low key feeling in my body nearly all the time. I think of it as my 'pilot light' always burning and ready to flare up any time. Even when busy at work I may not be actively thinking about sex but that feeling is almost always there.
I think my H is the same, he's always ready to 'go' and sometimes i realise he's looking at pics on his phone when I think he's doing work related stuff. But that pleases me to know he's thinking about sex...and usually leads to something
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me - every 30 minutes
my wife - once a month
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