Originally Posted by Hicks
Your wife is getting her sexual needs met through her affairs and fliritng with men on the internet. She does not see you as sexual or need you to meet her sexual needs. Women's sexual needs don't revolve around orgasms. Her's revolve around secret flirting and men blowing smoke up her ass.
You sound like you are married to my ex.
I always got her off, at least oncce, everytime, and I'd estimate about 95% of each sexual episode was solely about her. I couldn't even get a dry hand job or 69 from her when I'd go down on her and I'd HAVE to go down on her EVERY time.
It was because she was getting what she really wanted (smoke up her ass) from all these online men, some of which I think turned physical.
She didn't want sex, she wanted to be told that she's beautiful awesome, etc., just not by me. It meant more coming from random strangers.
I think the reason why waas because I was supposed to tell her that, so it didn't mean anything. To convince some random dude from the internet that she was hot though was like an acheivement.
You better get her to cut off the online crap or there's no winning this one.