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How do you feel about using vibrators on your wife. How do you feel when your wife asks you to use one on her...or uses it during sex. Is it a blow to your ego? And which one(s) do you like to use...if at all. And.....in what context do you like to use it in. If you enjoy it....please explain what you enjoy. I'm trying to understand this more.
I absolutely love using a toy on her. She's a little shy about suggesting sometimes so I always like to have it close by. It doesn't bother my ego in the least bit and drives me nuts to see her getting off with one, albeit with her holding it or me.
How do you feel about using vibrators on your wife. How do you feel when your wife asks you to use one on her...or uses it during sex. Is it a blow to your ego? And which one(s) do you like to use...if at all. And.....in what context do you like to use it in. If you enjoy it....please explain what you enjoy. I'm trying to understand this more.
I'm not married, but I love using toys on my GF. I'd say we use one about 50% of the time. In particular, it's the best way for her to climax messily during intercourse. She needs some extra stimulation to achieve that.
We've got a selection of toys... From dildos to a rabbit vibrator to a small bullet vibe to a **** ring... She also picked out one for my, to try prostate stimulation. The bullet vibe is the one we use most often. I keep I on its charger beside my bed at all times.
How do you feel about using vibrators on your wife. How do you feel when your wife asks you to use one on her...or uses it during sex. Is it a blow to your ego? And which one(s) do you like to use...if at all. And.....in what context do you like to use it in. If you enjoy it....please explain what you enjoy. I'm trying to understand this more.
My husband is insecure about me using a vibrator, so he would never use one on me in bed. I don't understand his feelings because it isn't as if I am going to run off with a little machine!
FYI, I thought vibrators were fun and I still do somewhat, but recently there were no batteries one night and I noticed nothing will get my wife off anymore without it... No matter what I did orally, manually, or through intercourse, I could sit there for hours doing things differently, trying to ask what she likes, and it's like everything is completely numb. She won't experience any kind of pleasure via other means anymore... There is virtually no need for me to do anything other than just the vibrator, and it wasn't like that before... I'd like to know if this is something that "goes away" at some point maybe, or if other women have undergone what I'm talking about... It's very frustrating to know that due to this "numbing" I no longer play any role in our sex.
Imagine if your husbands used some sex toy, and afterward could never climax anymore from intercourse with you or from oral with you... Same thing.
I think not all women react the same to vibrators, so I say be careful. Posted via Mobile Device
My husband is insecure about me using a vibrator, so he would never use one on me in bed. I don't understand his feelings because it isn't as if I am going to run off with a little machine!
My H is the same way. Its ok for me to use one when I needa little lunchtime stimulation while he's at work, but heavens forbid me bring one to bed with us. You would think I brought another man to bed or something lol Posted via Mobile Device
My husband doesn't have any qualms with using anything that gives me pleasure. He is the first that suggested using it before and during sex. I don't think he thinks it's a blow to his ego because there are times when we don't use it.
My husband hid my "neck massager" when I was using it for other things too often. He doesn't mind me using my hands, but not a vibrating machine. Men and their weird insecurities...
Sounds like PBear has set the likes of Nokia, Ericsson, Samsung, Apple etc a challenge!.
How many of us charge our mobile phones on the bedside table?
How about a moble phone that can also double up as a vibe? I know phones already have a vibrator 'alert' (ring me again darling!!)
How about a bullet phone that actually 'fits'..??!!!
FYI, I thought vibrators were fun and I still do somewhat, but recently there were no batteries one night and I noticed nothing will get my wife off anymore without it... No matter what I did orally, manually, or through intercourse, I could sit there for hours doing things differently, trying to ask what she likes, and it's like everything is completely numb. She won't experience any kind of pleasure via other means anymore... There is virtually no need for me to do anything other than just the vibrator, and it wasn't like that before... I'd like to know if this is something that "goes away" at some point maybe, or if other women have undergone what I'm talking about... It's very frustrating to know that due to this "numbing" I no longer play any role in our sex.
Imagine if your husbands used some sex toy, and afterward could never climax anymore from intercourse with you or from oral with you... Same thing.
I think not all women react the same to vibrators, so I say be careful. Posted via Mobile Device
Yaaaaa I met my vibrator long before I met my husband. So this is the problem. *sigh*
My wife and I were married for more than 10 years and enjoy a great sex life together. She went on a trip with a bunch of her friends and surprisingly they all went to a store and bought rabbit vibrators and brought them home to their husbands. We never had used one before and I was as excited as she was to try if the first time. She loved it from that first use and we found ourselves adding it to our sex life every now and then.
Since then we have bought several other vibrators and use those as well from time to time to change things up. I really enjoy watching her give herself pleasure, and once or twice when I was gone on business she confessed that she treated herself to some quality time with the rabbit.
In the end I think every couple will be different, but for us it is a welcome part of our sex life and will continue to be for a long time.
FYI, I thought vibrators were fun and I still do somewhat, but recently there were no batteries one night and I noticed nothing will get my wife off anymore without it... No matter what I did orally, manually, or through intercourse, I could sit there for hours doing things differently, trying to ask what she likes, and it's like everything is completely numb. She won't experience any kind of pleasure via other means anymore... There is virtually no need for me to do anything other than just the vibrator, and it wasn't like that before... I'd like to know if this is something that "goes away" at some point maybe, or if other women have undergone what I'm talking about... It's very frustrating to know that due to this "numbing" I no longer play any role in our sex.
Imagine if your husbands used some sex toy, and afterward could never climax anymore from intercourse with you or from oral with you... Same thing.
I think not all women react the same to vibrators, so I say be careful. Posted via Mobile Device
Too much of a good thing can be bad. Her brain is conditioned to the vibrator and not the real thing, you need to hide the vibrator , this is almost like porn addiction, you get addicted to masturbating while watching porn and you'll lose interest in the real thing. Why not lay off sex and build up sexual tension till she's really ready to jump your bones, that should do the trick.
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Vibrators + marital Bed = ? 
when I was using it for other things too often. He doesn't mind me using my hands, but not a vibrating machine. Men and their weird insecurities...
