Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
I agree with WorkingOnMe, showing your husband that he is driving you wild, satisfying you completely and that you can't wait for the next time is extremely exciting to a man. Additionally, 'overt submissiveness' is something that I particularly enjoy ...
Wth? We're talking about those things between husbands and wives! You can't get HIV by swallowing from your HIV negative spouse. Nobody mentioned anything dangerous like ATM. Maybe you should get yourself a little education.
Yep, what he said. Swallowing or not bears little relevance to the risk between wifey and I. We've had unprotected sex since 1993.
Take a pic on your phone...send to him with a detailed description of what you want him to do when he gets home, and do that as soon as he walks in. I would have a "hard" time walking around my office that day.
Here's a little secret cowgirl, a lot of men don't want to be driven wild, have their toes curled and beg for more. They don't want to be so satisfied that they can't wait for next time.
You know what they really want???
They want to drive YOU wild, curl YOUR toes and hear you beg for more. They want YOU so satisfied that you can't wait for next time.
Seriously. I don't think a woman can ever understand how that feeds a mans ego and how great it is.
You want specifics, going beyond the bj (and assuming you already swallow with a smile on your face). For me, I like "overt" submissiveness, tie up games, spanking. I also like doing things out of the norm for us, like anal for example. But just doing it doesn't really do anything for me. I really want to see enthusiasm, her getting off on it. Perhaps DP with a toy.
I have answered at length, but I do not see my post here.
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Re: How do I drive him wild in bed???? 
