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Men, I need your help! What are thing you enjoy or just absolutly drive you wild during sex... I know ya'all like a bj and that is never an issue but I want more ways to spice it up! I want to drive him wild, curl his toes and beg for more! Any places to touch, kiss, or suck any positions, play, or techniques? I want to leave him so satisfied that he can't wait for next time! Posted via Mobile Device
Here are some things that drive me crazy in our marriage:
- The number one hottest thing my wife does for me in bed is show me she's genuinely driven wild by being with me. NOTHING is hotter than a woman who adores you, and finds you extremely sexy. I can tell that my wife doesn't just adore sex, she adores sex specially with me. Nothing beats this.
- Anal masturbation. Watching my totally buck naked wife finger herself anally to climax was so hot it almost made me cum without touching myself.
- Swallow. If you don't already, do.
- Pay attention to his ass. Slip a finger or two in there, or your tongue, especially during a BJ. Most men have no clue how good this feels.
- Verbalize your orgasm. I can tell when my wife is climaxing, but nothing beats hear telling me, in soft moans, "I'm cumming". It's an incredible turn on.
- Total freedom. It turns me on to know that my wife and I have a judgement free sex life, and that our bodies belong to one another. I can try anything and know that I have total freedom, because she trusts me.
- Play together. No matter what I'm doing to my wife, it always makes me more amped up if she's touching herself while I'm doing it.
- Kiss him like you **** him. There is a way to kiss a person that is as intimate, and hot, as sex. I call it mouth-to-mouth sex, and it's beyond sexy. Kiss him like your sanity depends on it, but don't stop until he's out of his mind.
tl;dr, maybe this was already mentioned, but i guess, telling him that his best friend does it better, could bring some unexpected wilderness in bed.. use with caution, though /just in case - I'm kidding/
otherwise I second jaquen on most of "bullets";
* knowing that woman desires me strongly is a huge turn on, no doubt
* swallowing is also nice (before it happened for me for the first time, I didn't think much of it, boy, was I wrong.. that IS something)
* I'm not in anal play, so, the regular masturbation would be perfect for me, too
* I'm a fan of dressing up, nothing fancy, though, a tight uuber mini dress (short enough to reveal almost everything when bending over) would make me rock hard in about 0.02 seconds . thigh-highs or stockings + garterbelt + heels also work wonders.
* and kegels, yes, these make a man to want it again and again.
* and one more - dirty talk; hearing about how good it feels, etc, moans, fingernails in the back, simple stuff, essentially, it's all good, great, even.
One a month make it a point to do something a bit crazy.
Broad daylight BJ in the car, dress up, slip on the heels just before bed, slip in some porn YOU like and watch it with him and play with yourself and let him watch, push his butt down in the chair unzip and swallow, etc etc, there is so much to do!
But above all that always enjoy the day to day sex, tell him how much u want him daily, tell him he's sexy and he's beautiful, text him and tease him. The special occasion stuff is GREAT, but he day to day stuff keeps it rolling
There is one thing the wife does which leaves me a quivering, broken, mess of a man. It may be very common but not heard of it before.
She takes the cowgirl position and after about 30 secs to a minute she pulls me out and then rests my penis between her lips so the head of my penis is nestling against her clit. After a litle rubbing and gyrating she reaches down and gently runs her fingertips across the head of my penis. I literally start trembling all over and involuntarily jerking.
She then pops me back in and after a minute or so repeats the process.
Eventually after about 20/30 mins when she finally lets me orgasm it is absolutely earth shattering.
She does have to be careful because if she does it too much it's like a kind of sensory overload and my penis just seems to shut down and I lose my erection. And if she uses her fingernails.....
Let him finish where ever he wants....mid sex tell him you will receive "him" whatever way he needs you to...and say with enthusiasm of course.
Better save MissyMrs suggestion for somewhat past "mid-sex," lest the loving end sooner than you had planned.
I can't give you any concrete, specific suggestions, but this is the idea, you want him to think both that you want it more than he does and also that you are doing it only for his satisfaction. A tough combination, but that's what to shoot for.
I wonder if I commented already too but... well, same answer everytime to these type of threads... TEASE!!!
Thats how you drive a man to animalistic urges!
Here's a little secret cowgirl, a lot of men don't want to be driven wild, have their toes curled and beg for more. They don't want to be so satisfied that they can't wait for next time.
You know what they really want???
They want to drive YOU wild, curl YOUR toes and hear you beg for more. They want YOU so satisfied that you can't wait for next time.
Seriously. I don't think a woman can ever understand how that feeds a mans ego and how great it is.
You want specifics, going beyond the bj (and assuming you already swallow with a smile on your face). For me, I like "overt" submissiveness, tie up games, spanking. I also like doing things out of the norm for us, like anal for example. But just doing it doesn't really do anything for me. I really want to see enthusiasm, her getting off on it. Perhaps DP with a toy.
Men, I need your help! What are thing you enjoy or just absolutly drive you wild during sex... I know ya'all like a bj and that is never an issue but I want more ways to spice it up! I want to drive him wild, curl his toes and beg for more! Any places to touch, kiss, or suck any positions, play, or techniques? I want to leave him so satisfied that he can't wait for next time! Posted via Mobile Device
A prostrate massage while receiving a blow job to completion is still my all time best orgasm ever.
When he wakes up in the morning with a morning wood, give hike a blow job or mount him while he is still waking up.
Surprise him when he least expects it. Lie completely nude with a big red bow tied around you and tell him, he can do whatever he wants to do to...
Introduce sex toys. A dual vibrator penis ring that the only time a man feels it is when she is grinding. The orgasm for both at the same time is the bomb and very intense.
Guys really enjoy hair pulling and slapping a girl's ass. You do have to teach him not to really pull your hair, but rather grab it close to the scalp so she enjoys it rather than turning around and slapping the hell out of you.
Doggy style, reach back and play with his balls especially during he big O.
Ditto what someone else said...a guy enjoys seeing you get off. You on top controlling the pace with the right amount of movement = a great feeling if you both come together at the same time. The bigger the woman O, the bigger the contractions on the little general.
The more you want it, the more it turns a man on. If you are wanting it hard, then let him know. If you are wanting it slow, then be really creative with the different positions to get the maximum feel.
Also suck on guys nipples and/or ears, especially if really sensitive around the ears.
Sorry for long post, but you asked. I am now extremely h.....
I wonder if I commented already too but... well, same answer everytime to these type of threads... TEASE!!!
Thats how you drive a man to animalistic urges!
Tease him...dress sexy....be desirable....change it up
Men, I need your help! What are thing you enjoy or just absolutly drive you wild during sex... I know ya'all like a bj and that is never an issue but I want more ways to spice it up! I want to drive him wild, curl his toes and beg for more! Any places to touch, kiss, or suck any positions, play, or techniques? I want to leave him so satisfied that he can't wait for next time! Posted via Mobile Device
you are winning. Doesn't matter what you do next.. your attitude matters more.