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Old 08-14-2012, 12:52 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Men, I need your help! What are thing you enjoy or just absolutly drive you wild during sex... I know ya'all like a bj and that is never an issue but I want more ways to spice it up! I want to drive him wild, curl his toes and beg for more! Any places to touch, kiss, or suck any positions, play, or techniques? I want to leave him so satisfied that he can't wait for next time!
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massage the prostate...if he's game that is...it'l drive him nuts
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Old 08-14-2012, 12:55 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Def introduce ass play both ways, use some good and dirty dialogue and taste yourself (either with your own finger or from his face and/or penis). There's nothing more lame than when my wife turns her head from a kiss attempt during intercourse after I went down on her.
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He does like that haha looking for something I haven't done 😉
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Here's a little secret cowgirl, a lot of men don't want to be driven wild, have their toes curled and beg for more. They don't want to be so satisfied that they can't wait for next time.

You know what they really want???

They want to drive YOU wild, curl YOUR toes and hear you beg for more. They want YOU so satisfied that you can't wait for next time.

Seriously. I don't think a woman can ever understand how that feeds a mans ego and how great it is.

You want specifics, going beyond the bj (and assuming you already swallow with a smile on your face). For me, I like "overt" submissiveness, tie up games, spanking. I also like doing things out of the norm for us, like anal for example. But just doing it doesn't really do anything for me. I really want to see enthusiasm, her getting off on it. Perhaps DP with a toy.
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Def introduce ass play both ways, use some good and dirty dialogue and taste yourself (either with your own finger or from his face and/or penis). There's nothing more lame than when my wife turns her head from a kiss attempt during intercourse after I went down on her.
Yes, tasting yourself is excellent. I like to aggressively kiss my wife after going down on her. She definitely gets into that. But she always shy's away from giving a bj after I've been inside her. Insists that I wash first. Definitely a mood killer.
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Let him finish where ever he wants....mid sex tell him you will receive "him" whatever way he needs you to...and say with enthusiasm of course.
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,act like an enthusiastic hooker. the dirtier and more into it that you can be, the better.
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He does like that haha looking for something I haven't done ��
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Have you dressed like the picture in your avatar? I know that would drive me wild.

I also agree with WorkingOnMe's post, tell him what you want and let him enjoy working on achieving that level. Having a woman try to drive you wild is awesome, but hearing your women moan and beg for you to pound her harder is like the 8th wonder of the world, like the most exquisite drug you've ever had, and leaves you feeling like you're simply the greatest man, and lover, ever. Nothing you can do for him will top this, at least IMO.
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Let him finish where ever he wants....mid sex tell him you will receive "him" whatever way he needs you to...and say with enthusiasm of course.
That could work. :P

I would suggest being flirty all day, just kind of be playful naughty

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Def introduce ass play both ways, use some good and dirty dialogue and taste yourself (either with your own finger or from his face and/or penis). There's nothing more lame than when my wife turns her head from a kiss attempt during intercourse after I went down on her.
I actually enjoy this! Thanks
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Old 08-14-2012, 02:16 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Try the Laura Corn Challenge

Put your husband in the bedroom closet so he can peak out and see the bed, tell him he cannot talk or move he can only watch.

You leave the room and come back a few minutes later get undressed slowly start touching yourself. Lay on the bed and take care of your business. toys if you would like

When you cannot stand it anymore tell him to get his rear out there and finish up.

My wife did that 10 years ago and I still think about it.
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Cowgirl,
First of all, kudos to you for actually asking this question. I think it is wonderful that you are taking the time and putting some effort into pleasing him in bed.
It sounds like you are fairly adventurous already so it may be hard to come up with something new but my favorites would have to be lingerie (the sl#ttier the better), doing things that are rare in my sex life (anal, swallow, toys) and as others mentioned, seeing her have the time of her life. One of the most memorable moments I ever had in bed was the first time I watched my wife masturbate herself to orgasm. Being as visual as I am, that blew me away.
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Here's a little secret cowgirl, a lot of men don't want to be driven wild, have their toes curled and beg for more. They don't want to be so satisfied that they can't wait for next time.

You know what they really want???


They want to drive YOU wild, curl YOUR toes and hear you beg for more. They want YOU so satisfied that you can't wait for next time.

Seriously. I don't think a woman can ever understand how that feeds a mans ego and how great it is.

You want specifics, going beyond the bj (and assuming you already swallow with a smile on your face). For me, I like "overt" submissiveness, tie up games, spanking. I also like doing things out of the norm for us, like anal for example. But just doing it doesn't really do anything for me. I really want to see enthusiasm, her getting off on it. Perhaps DP with a toy.
Thanks for the heads up
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Rimjobs .. he'll love you for it! You can tease him by kissing him afterwards haha!

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