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Old 08-17-2012, 03:12 PM   #46 (permalink)
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OK so I have a question for the ladies. Would you give your man a squirting facial if you could?
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:24 PM   #47 (permalink)
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OK so I have a question for the ladies. Would you give your man a squirting facial if you could?
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Oooohh. Good question! If my wife were a squirter (which she is not), then I would think it would be awseome. I would love being down there and then getting the results all over me while she thrashes around!
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:38 PM   #48 (permalink)
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I like it! You're right- my h hates anything planned..but I love giving road head, so that would be perfecto- might get messy!!!! :O
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:43 PM   #49 (permalink)
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Girls with glasses getting cummed on is a real "thing" for internet porn. Shades, librarian types, etc. Not my thing but its out there.
Huh. I wear glasses but always take them off to give head. Never occurred to me to keep them on. I don't believe I will either. Things is frackin expensive.
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Huh. I wear glasses but always take them off to give head. Never occurred to me to keep them on. I don't believe I will either. Things is frackin expensive.
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:45 PM   #51 (permalink)
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Oh- in response to squirting on HIM? If I could, I would, but only if he wanted!
Otherwise I'd warn him before the finale, so he could move out of the way..
I wonder if a woman's ejaculate fluid would burn the same?
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:46 PM   #52 (permalink)
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I like it! You're right- my h hates anything planned..but I love giving road head, so that would be perfecto- might get messy!!!! :O
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Just make sure you have a discrete towel hidden in your purse. Or baby wipes or something.
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:54 PM   #53 (permalink)
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A point that I don't think has been made--

Would it make a difference if W was shooting the gun, so to speak, rather than H?

It would make a huge difference to me. In one case it seems like mere masturbation with the result dumped degradingly on her face; in the other both are involved and it seems more a function of mutual desire.

Just a thought.
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:56 PM   #54 (permalink)
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I guess everyone has their homework cut out for them. Everyone try it out tonight and come back to us with the results.
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A point that I don't think has been made--

Would it make a difference if W was shooting the gun, so to speak, rather than H?

It would make a huge difference to me. In one case it seems like mere masturbation with the result dumped degradingly on her face; in the other both are involved and it seems more a function of mutual desire.

Just a thought.
Great point. This is a crucial difference. When I said earlier that I'm not really interested in this, I was talking about getting off by my own hand and just dumping it on her. But if she was giving me head and used HER hand to give herself a facial from me....ya, that's incredibly hot.
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Old 08-17-2012, 04:29 PM   #56 (permalink)
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I see what you're saying Missy~ sometimes we do for eachother things we don't necessarily want to do, for the sake of the relationship.
But for me, conversation & being ejaculated on are in different camps.
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Personally, I don't see the big deal. I mean if i can swallow it or put it other orifices why not on my face. Yes in the eye may hurt but, you can safeguard against this by closing your eyes.

I think this act is degrading because we women are conditioned to think these acts are degrading because they dissrespect us somehow. Granted I don't know if i would want a youtube video of it on the internet... but, in the privacy of our bedroom if my hubby wanted me to do this...As other said what matters is the rest of the 99 % of time how they treat you.

My H has come on my face when I have been giving him a BJ. It is very erotic for him. I never thought of it but it is probably a combination of the submission and marking his territory. He has never grabbed his junk and shot it purposefully "porn style". That may take some getting used to.

karma girl (interesting name) you may unknowingly made your husband back down on this one. You H knows you think it is gross so he knows if he pushes the issue you may think he is unkind. Personally, I like the feeling of him coming in (like most women) so my H asking me to "take it on the chin" he may not be totally honest to say. My guess is that most men (as evidenced by its overwhelming inclusion of most porn) that is written for men, by men that most men find this erotic even if they won't admit it.
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Old 08-17-2012, 04:31 PM   #57 (permalink)
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Actually, THAT sounds kind of appealing...
Hmmmm...I love how after I visit this place, I become a more sexually adventurous wifey
Gotta say thank you all for the motivation...(we'll see if I can get over my hang-ups about it!)
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Old 08-17-2012, 04:37 PM   #58 (permalink)
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marriedwithkids- yep, I actually agree.
I figured he just didn't want to annoy me by pushing the subject- but I'm sure inside he wouldn't complain if, at the final moment, I pulled out & let him go on my face
...away from my eyes! Does that still count?
In fact, considering my aversion to it, he may be absolutely stunned! (Maybe in a good way!)
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:37 PM   #59 (permalink)
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I don't see the appeal. I don't like facials in porn, and I don't like it in real life. My wife would definitely allow me to do it, but it's not something I have even a lick of interest in. The times I've unintentionally come on my own face sure didn't leave me with the impression that I'd want to purposefully do that to somebody else.
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Your with the person who loves and respects you. So why not fulfill there sexual fetish every once and awhile?
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