08-18-2012, 07:40 PM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | 50 Shades of Gray wifes bday coming up
My wifes bday is coming up and thought about getting her the 50 shades of gray book to see if it would maybe spice things up in the bedroom at least for her. A little history she is going on 27 and im 29 she has never really been into sex that I can tell, never initiates and comes off as reserved about sex. I have discussed issue regarding our sex life with little improvement. She has in the past tried to open up about sex, since I have encouraged it and asked her what she wants and likes, we ordered a few toys but im guessing they weren't quite what she thought it would be, I just dont want to get her something and her think of me being a perv and tring to get her to be something she's not. I have heard of women reading this book and finally opening up about what they want and like just thought I would give this a try. She was suppost to go to a passion party for the first time and at the last min backed out, I guess due to embarressment. So should I get this for her maybe some other ideas?