So my fantasy (for the longest LOL) has been to tie my husband up to a chair or bench or something (not the bed, I want OUT of the bed). I may have casually told him this a few years ago but I have never found a good time to initiate this. I guess anytime is as good as ever?
Go for it!
For several years now he has been initiating sex and I think I have finally got my drive back up and I want to do something extra kinky. I think this would shock the hell out of him LOL. Is there a good time for this? How do I initiate something like this without saying, "Ok, i'm going to tie you up now" LOL.
If you want to be safe, just tell him you got a surprise for him after getting him in the mood. If you want to surprise him, cuff him when he least expects it.
I am pretty skilled when it comes to BJ's so of course that's going to be a big part of my little fantasy shindig.... what I am NOT skilled at, however, is talking dirty. I am not a shy woman by any means. I am sort of the "goofy" cracking jokes type. Needless to say, I would probably die laughing trying to talk dirty to my husband. I mean all out tear fest.
My wife and I laugh a lot with our dirty talks and sometimes it's so cheesy we just end up bursting out laughing. Especially when we play a games like superior officer/inspection/slave etc etc
Just roleplay and it'll come naturally. After a while you'll be dirty talking instinctively.
I don't want to do that and ruin it, but how could you tie your man up and blindfold him without saying a WORD? I don't think that would pan out too well, doesn't sound very sexy at all.
How do I get the nerve to talk dirty to him without wanting to laugh? I'm not talking about casual sexy giggles, I think there may actually be snorting involved if I even attempted.
You're thinking too much in my opinion, and it's going to show. You're being a bit self-concious, just go with it! One of my wife's strengths is how she simply doesn't give a crap when it comes to getting what she wants and doing what she wants to her man (Also a problem!!!). As such, she's a natural at it and confident, and THAT's sexy.
Aside from how to initiate and how to talk dirty to him, are there any other recommendations someone would like to add to make this a smooth experience? Have any of you ever tied your partner up? What all was involved? Did they enjoy it? Did you? Any pointers would be appreciated:-)
Just don't go too far. My wife tortured me years ago and I banned her from restraining or cuffing me since then. She would be the best at this if only she could control her fantasies once she realises she has all the power.