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Old 08-30-2012, 08:08 AM   #16 (permalink)
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I'm so horney that the crack of dawn looks good to me!
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Old 08-30-2012, 08:30 AM   #17 (permalink)
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I was wanting sex even before I knew what it was. When the Grim Reaper comes for me, if she's hot, I'll be checking her out as I leave this world.
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Old 08-30-2012, 09:16 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Not on this forum, but my VERY LD hubs is rarely in the mood.

IMHO - you will not get alot of men to admit this here; but they are out there.
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Old 08-30-2012, 09:33 AM   #20 (permalink)
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I can have it at the drop of a hat unless I'm really sick or severely sleep deprived. I could do it a couple of times a day if I had the time to do that, but we actually have sex 2 - 4 times a week (IMO, a little low but it's our natural compromise).
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Old 08-30-2012, 11:52 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Not that I can recall.
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Old 08-30-2012, 12:19 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Nah, no longer care.
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Old 08-30-2012, 02:25 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Am i one of the few on here who is not in the mood for sex all the time? Sometimes i do not want to have sex even if my wife wants to have sex i usually will agree to but other times id prefer doing something else. I love to get lost in my thoughts i love to think and i get caught up reading sometimes or would rather go golf, or watch a movie with my wife and not have sex right after or during.

Hard to explain how i came to think like this.
Probably your age...I've read a few books on Testosterone as I was so worried about my husband for a time... As men age, they loose a small percentage of this Lust hormone every year.... Then for us women...this starts to RISE in our late 30's/ early 40's many times, as estrogen takes a dive. Might explain why your wife wants more NOW - if that is what is happening.

Although my husband is no longer ANTSY for it, he still loves sex and would happily do it 3 times a day if he could...... I know what drives him...it is the emotional connection we share , we just enjoy it that much. Thank God for that.... cause if it was just "lust" related, I think I'd be high & dry..probably have to starve him for at least 4 days or something.

Once he gets started though...which he never ever has turned down my charms....Lust arrives.... so I can't really complain.

We're both admittedly "addicted" to orgasms !
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Old 08-30-2012, 03:54 PM   #24 (permalink)
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I am not that old nor am i over my 50's. I can cum a ton and do every time i just have like trained myself to not want sex all the time and give in. Its nice when the wife wants it and i do not have to ask. Doctor says i am healthy.
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I am not that old nor am i over my 50's. I can cum a ton and do every time i just have like trained myself to not want sex all the time and give in. Its nice when the wife wants it and i do not have to ask. Doctor says i am healthy.
My husband is 48, sometimes he refers to himself as an Old man...I want to slug him when he talks like that...I don't like the fact we are getting older, it is all going so fast.......not that we can stop the clock.

I had no idea how old you were - I just assumed it was worth a mention... As I've come to learn ....there are many variables to a Sex Drive...which was very comforting to me personally....as when I landed on this forum... nothing made me brighter than to realize --even men with Lower Test STILL "wanted" their wives. As I was questioning this from my husband due to hormones ...I used to make him a little .

I no longer worry about these things.
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Old 08-30-2012, 04:52 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Not on this forum, but my VERY LD hubs is rarely in the mood.

IMHO - you will not get alot of men to admit this here; but they are out there.
I'm one of those few.
53 years old and I'm just not very interested in sex at all.
Yep. Can think of many other things I'd rather be doing.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:39 PM   #27 (permalink)
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I only feel that way if I've had less than 5 hours sleep the night before. Other than that it's involuntary. She lays down in bed, lil Sinn is ready to go...
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After a certain number of years with barely any sex, the drive just kinda shuts itself off, no matter if you are 30 or 60. Or so I've come to think. Thing is even though I have hardly any sex drive it is pretty much all I think about still. I just don't think my attention span or body can handle it.
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Not on this forum, but my VERY LD hubs is rarely in the mood.

IMHO - you will not get alot of men to admit this here; but they are out there.
OH they are out there. I hear about them in real life. There are women here who talk about them.

I just haven't seen one post here in the 1-1/2 years that I have been here.

OK, on edit: Mr Vanilla came along.
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I am not that old nor am i over my 50's. I can cum a ton and do every time i just have like trained myself to not want sex all the time and give in. Its nice when the wife wants it and i do not have to ask. Doctor says i am healthy.
In that case, see a shrink.
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