Originally Posted by Goldmember357
Am i one of the few on here who is not in the mood for sex all the time? Sometimes i do not want to have sex even if my wife wants to have sex i usually will agree to but other times id prefer doing something else. I love to get lost in my thoughts i love to think and i get caught up reading sometimes or would rather go golf, or watch a movie with my wife and not have sex right after or during.
Hard to explain how i came to think like this.
Probably your age...I've read a few books on Testosterone as I was so worried about my husband for a time... As men age, they loose a small percentage of this Lust hormone
every year.... Then for us women...this starts to RISE in our late 30's/ early 40's many times, as estrogen takes a dive. Might explain why your wife wants more NOW - if that is what is happening.
Although my husband is no longer ANTSY for it, he still loves sex and would happily do it 3 times a day if he could...... I know what drives him...it is the emotional connection we share , we just enjoy it that much. Thank God for that.... cause if it was just "lust
" related, I think I'd be high & dry..probably have to starve him for at least 4 days or something.
Once he gets started though...which he never ever has turned down my charms....Lust arrives.... so I can't really complain.
We're both admittedly "addicted" to orgasms !