Goldmember357

Am i one of the few on here who is not in the mood for sex all the time? Sometimes i do not want to have sex even if my wife wants to have sex i usually will agree to but other times id prefer doing something else. I love to get lost in my thoughts i love to think and i get caught up reading sometimes or would rather go golf, or watch a movie with my wife and not have sex right after or during.

Hard to explain how i came to think like this.

Accipiter777

I can go anytime, but it's not like I need to...

Shaggy

Occasionally I have gas or indigestion, but the rest of the time I'm good to go.

40isthenew20

I can get horny not too long after sex or masturbating. Gimme a whole day without dropping a load and I'm climbing the walls. If I'm watching TV, basically any female that comes across the screen reminds me when I'm busy.

Machiavelli

Totally understandable. If you're over age 55. If not, see a doctor.

Maricha75

My husband likes to sleep.... does that count?

Actually, his IS a medical or psychological issue. Calling tomorrow to make the appointment for him (FINALLY) to see his doctor to get tests run.

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Dark Nova

My husband is like that. He tells me he "forgets" to think about having sex with me and needs me to initiate to get him to remember. I can crawl into bed butt naked and hairless and he'd rather finish his book. *sigh*

RandomDude

I'm only in the mood once a day or every other day, my wife is in the mood 24/7, including the times of the month. A lot of our systems are her idea, she forbids me wearing anything in our bedroom for example. Wants the "intimacy" -.-

LOL I wish a book or something can stop my wife from getting what she wants. Sometimes when I'm enjoying a gaming session she just comes to sit on my lap and grind or to remove my trousers. I'm getting used to it though, she's not as forceful as before, even though she's still IN MY FACE for sex all the time.

larry.gray

Oh, I love 3AM trysts!!!!

Juicer

Well lets see here...

On days when I work and get home at 12:00 a.m., (or later) and my stbxw wasn't with me at work (long story about why she might be there) I probably didn't want it.
But if she wanted it, you better believe I gave it. I may have been asleep when she finished, but she got what she wanted (I assume)

And occassionally on a cycle of things like tren, I would kill my libido. Did that a few times, and she got ticked, and let me know it.

Beyond that, I am almost always up for it.

larry.gray

I can think of a few times in my life.

We had some major problems at work, and multi-millions were on the line with me being in charge of fixing the problem. I worked about 100 hours that week. After the second 14 hour day I was mildly interested and the third day I wasn't at all.

I've had BAD food poisoning. I mean REALLY BAD. Ended up having to get an IV because of dehydration. I wasn't interested then.

The only other time is flying coach from SE Asia back to the U.S. I needed a few hours of sleep before I was ready to make up for 3 weeks away from my wife.

unbelievable

I'm like a pop tart. Open the package and I'm pretty much ready.

Maricha75

I did tell him that one of these days, I'm just gonna attack him lol. I don't think he believes me though.

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larry.gray

Well what are you waiting for?!

Toffer

You poor bastard!