09-10-2012, 08:41 PM
Join Date: Dec 2010
| | Re: Fine line has to be drawn...
Aye, all the reason she needs counselling it seems. She gets defensive however, and so far I've dropped this for the sake of peace in the household. The strange thing is, she became like this since marriage. Yet based on her history, it's like she was hypersexual in her youth, went to church and seems to have been normalised when she got converted (that's when I met her, and before marriage when we were gf/bf we never had this problem even though we did make love quite often), then we got married and the demands started coming. Nowadays she's more cunning to get her way instead of using repeated demands however.
Oh mate I've tried, hell the gods know I've tried. And I don't feel good when I can't perform - I know I should be thankful that I don't have a sexless marriage but at the same time it's just too much! And this isn't a 3 month thing, it's been a problem for years since marriage. Its a sex marathon each time and its getting old and tiring. I keep myself as fit and healthy as I can, but her expectations can be quite demanding. I wrote this on another thread, what she expects from me each session:
Also, my wife is only satisfied after: |
- Full service, oral, intercourse, and the O (Sometimes she won't let me go until she has multiple Os too)
- I ejaculate, she won't let me go unless I do (BIG problem when I'm not even in the mood and it's duty sex)
- After-sex cuddling/affection/talking
It takes from 15 minutes to 2 hours depending on her mood/level of desire/personal endurance to satisfy her - PER SESSION
The better mood I'm in the faster she gets satisfied but it's difficult to even be in the mood when she wants it this much.
Yes, it seems to be a sex addiction just like I had an alcohol addiction. So writing everything down you say? Like an after-sex report on intimacy? Hmmm, I'll see if I can get the missus onto it... now just have to think of how to word it lest she reckons I'm trying to worm my way out of sex again.