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Old 09-08-2012, 12:25 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Is this weird? Normal? I wanna take pictures of my wife..naked, even some closeups, record her giving me a bj..just for myself to enjoy

Does anyone else do this?

I have a high sex drive and sometimes find myself looking at porn like it's a drug..then it goes away for a while but I'm still horny as ****..
I sometimes masterbait to pictures of my wife, but,she aint naked in any of them..she's insecure about her body but I also make it very clear how
attracted I am to her, especially dat bootay!

Good idea? Bad idea?
Whatever idea?
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Old 09-08-2012, 12:45 AM   #2 (permalink)
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If it works for you two it's fine. I know I want to do it for my hubby. He likes it that I send him things like that. I see it as a way to show love.
Just talk to her about it and let your feelings be clear. Make sure you don't belittle her emotions.
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Old 09-08-2012, 12:48 AM   #3 (permalink)
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It is a good idea for a high drive person.

A couple years ago, I did this for my husband, allowing him to video tap me on our digital camera. He still looks at porn, but he will look at my pictures and movies more. Knowing that he does that to me makes me feel desirable, and I did it for him to show him that I desire him too.

Talk to her about it, and see how she feels about it.
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Old 09-08-2012, 01:08 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I would like too. But there is no way my wife would ever agree to it......She would be afraid the kids or someone else might eventually see them

A co-worker lost his cell and his wife had sent him a topless picture on it. Well you guessed it, another co-worker found the phone and didn't know who it belonged to. So the co-worker who found the phone started looking in the phone to find the owner, and found the nude pics. No one was mad or offended , maybe a little embarrassed, but it turned out to be a good laugh.
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Old 09-08-2012, 08:10 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I have body image issues. Still can't believe my husband is attracted to me lol. But I have sent him pics and he has taken pics of me. Also, he recorded me giving him a BJ once. I did it for him. He doesn't watch porn, and not sure if he has even viewed the video since recording it, tbh. But he has the pics on his phone. I don't worry about anyone seeing them tho.
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do u have any u like to share?
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do u have any u like to share?
If you are asking members on a MARRIAGE forum to share naked pics of themselves with you...perhaps you should find a different forum. That is not what this board is about.
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do u have any u like to share?
REALLY DUDE?!?! kinda crossing the line aren't you.....
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I have been taking nude pics of my wife for 40 years. It started with an instant camera (remember those?), then I started developing my own slides, now of course digital. We have been making sex vids since the middle 90s. We both love looking at them (she has some of me too) and we will often have sex while watching the vids. I don't think it is strange at all to masturbate to pics or vids of my hot wife. BTW they are on a password protected external hard drive.
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Old 09-08-2012, 09:18 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I took some nude pics of myself for my husband a few years ago....and until I saw this thread, I TOTALLY forgot I also let him record us on New Years last year LOL. We were slammed.... now I wanna see the video, I haven't seen it since we recorded it.

Nothing weird about it at all. Just ask her. The worst she could say is no. My husband had always asked if we could record ourselves but I was too uncomfortable. Then I just went for it. I wouldn't do it now because I am a pregnant mammoth but when I lose the baby weight, oh yes, we will be recording. We always used to joke and say we were going to make a flick to some Wu-tang music hahahaha. Maybe we'll go for it next year lol. Funny stuff:-)

Just make sure you can explain to your wife that you will secure whatever format you use. My husband has his in a hidden folder in his laptop so if anyone ever happens to use his computer they won't just see it like "heeeyyyyyy!!!!". I also fully trust that my husband would never, EVER, share it with anyone.
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My wife texts me topless shots on occasion.
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Old 09-08-2012, 03:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Talked to wife..she flat out said no even kinda slammed it in my face..no chance in hell Im gettin pictures or videos of her..

Its the person I married..
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Old 09-08-2012, 03:19 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Well, I once got a great shot of my wife topless, not long after baby number one was born, boy, is it a hot one. And, when she got her hands on it, she hid it or destroyed it. Said she still has it, but no way no how is she gonna let me have it.

That was, after all, twenty some years ago, and she wishes to heaven she had that figure now, and frankly, I'd love to have it now, too, since she's far away. But no, not a chance she'd ever let me have it again.

What am I gonna do, lust after her?

Go figure. If she won't, she won't, and if it makes her uncomfortable, demanding or pleading is only going to make you seem like you're bullying her in an intimate setting.
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Amazes me how uptite some women are about naked photos and sex.
I surf the web every nite for naked pics and there are gazilloions of women that are NOT hung up on this .
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Talked to wife..she flat out said no even kinda slammed it in my face..no chance in hell Im gettin pictures or videos of her..

Its the person I married..
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Did she give a reason? Is it because of privacy issues? Insecurities? Or just "too far out there" for her? That sucks! Sorry?

When my husband first asked I said not only no but HELL no. It was too new for me. I had never seen a naked photo of myself and was worried of what I would think.....of myself LOL. Then I worried if people would ever see them..... after trying other new things with our sex life first, I got more comfortable with the idea and now i'm all for it.
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