09-14-2012, 10:17 AM
Join Date: Jul 2010
| | Re: Who initiate sex in your relationship?
I never initiate, because it never happens when I do. In the past, I have tried to initiate on the spot and have been rejected. I tried some "advance warning" like suggesting for that evening before I leave for work, she tells me she's not in the mood.
I've only said no to my wife once... in the middle of the night when I was exhausted. Any other time in our marriage she has suggested sex, we did it.
I would say 99.99% of the time she suggests, we do it, 100% of the time I try to initiate, we don't. Now it's just too frustrating to try.