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Dream about Coworker

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Took a nap today and had a dream about a coworker of mine. She is new to the workplace and I have spoken with her some, but not really gotten to know her too well. I've never really thought of her that way, but the dream I can't get out of my head now. We didn't have sex, but it was on that way until we were interrupted by her boyfriend (she does have one in real life).
 
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It's just crushes, it comes and goes. I never bother with them or give them the time of day really, I don't even think about it and before I know it I'll be going "who? what chick?"

If you have been thinking about something all day then sure of course you're going to dream about it. Sometimes all I dream about is work work work work work lol -> So flush it from your thoughts, turn yourself off or take your wife or go for a whack. Problem solved

I still find other women attractive, I even find myself fun-flirting with them naturally. But I never let them linger in my thoughts. Wish my wife understands this...
 
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Careful mentioning that. That thread got deleted because I said something positive about my marriage (I was trying to give something besides just the negatives in my marriage). I was going to go back to it and give an update about trying to make it happen again last night and got rejected. She said it was too soon again and we should wait longer so she has a better chance of getting pregnant. I said I just wanted to for fun, but her comment killed the mood.

But going back to your comment, thinking about sex with my wife doesn't usually do to much for me. The sex was good, but thinking about it, eh.
 
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my 2 cents.....

you had great sex, so now everything is sexually charged. happens to me all the time.

great sex with husband, strange sex dream about someone else. we talked about, and the conclusion we arrived at is, [a] its a dream, and its the sex, not the person.

its just something about having sex, that makes you think about sex, dream about sex, hear sexual overtures when people talk, and almost every answer could be "thats what she said".

chalk it up the human condition. i would just shrug it off, and not read anything into it.
 
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Gotta say I had stopped thinking about it yesterday, then I went to work today. Our offices are not to far away, as soon as I saw her I thought it again. Then each time I saw her today, I just kept thinking about the possibility. She's attractive, she's younger,hard to not think about it.
 
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