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Just curious, my wife has said time and time again, my "tool" is the perfect size for her....which I laugh at, but hey, jsut wondering if this was true for other women?
Speaking from my own experience.. I have been with someone who was too large for me, which was painfun and not fun at all.. and I have been with someone who fit perfectly.. and all the right buttons were pushed...
I think it all depends on the woman as well.. the shape of her, the depth and size of her as well.
*blush* can't believe I just answered this question.. going back to the corner now!!
Size DOES matter! Of course it helps a lit'l if you know what you're doing... but I still think it doesn't matter HOW much you know if you have a 3" tool. I also married "perfect" GA - I know how lucky your wife must feel!
I've only been with one guy that was really small. It was awkward and uncomfortable, mainly because he had to stop every few moments to put himself back inside me, and the main sensation was his hips battering against mine. The guy had a bit of an attitude anway.
With large guys it can be a little sore but in a good way, the sex is a little bit more involved, besides there are positions you can use that stops him going in the whole way. It just feels like proper sex .
Hubby is big, which he actually doesn't realise. I've always suspected the reason the sex was so bad with his previous gf before he met me was that she found it hard to manage and it just killed off their sex life, I've never said it to him though.
My H is the perfect size for me, too. He doesn't believe it, though. I won't lie; to me, size matters. Too big is uncomfortable, too small is pointless. If I can't feel it, I'm not enjoying it.
My H is curved, which, I think works in his, and my (G-Spot), favor.
Size absolutely matters. I once dated a nice guy who was small and although he was wonderful to me, I couldn't move past the size. There was no attraction and the sex was dreadful he had no idea what to do with it. Husband is perfect size, I wouldn't want it any other way.
What is not commonly known even in these enlightened days with the internet etc... is that there are simple manual exercises men can do to increase their size and hardness.
Most men can gain 1/2 an inch in erect length quite easily (2-4 weeks), and 1 inch in about a year. After that, the gains slow down and you have to be dedicated to get much more
Girth can also be improved.
So to cut a long story short, the average man can move to above average, and the below average man can move into the average range with not all that much effort.
I'm satisfied with hubby's length, but, I always thought making your manhood longer, was a myth... not possible.. hmmmm..;-)
to be true, I wouldn't want him any bigger, it would hurt me. He already is capable of occasionally giving me a jab that makes me squeal a bit... in pain, not delight LOL... not to say that he's huge, but maybe it depends on the woman too?
Let's just put it this way, my wife told me a while ago "no more length", but she said more girth was OK. I thought it was a myth until I did my own "investigations".
I can't do it justice in a short post here. There are dangers associated with doing these exercises too hard. The best free website in my opinion is Thunder's Place Free Penis Enlargement Forums
Basically there are 3 main exercises.
Kegels - essential for penile health and firmness
Jelqing - an Arabic technique like milking a cow
Gentle manual stretching.
I don't recommend using any devices or equipment, I think it's dangerous, even though a lot of the members on Thunders do use various implements. I have to say, 75% of them are obsessed with size, way way beyond what is healthy... You have been warned. It's also not a good site for women to join, as the members are quite rude - it's a bit of a locker room in there. The only women who last long on there are tough as old boots!
The above website has a newbie routine. People who try to do the advanced stuff before they do 3 months of the newbie routine often injure themselves because the penis needs to be conditioned before it can take the more intense workout. It actually becomes stronger and tougher. which is one of the reasons why growth slows down after the first half inch.
As a final warning, I must say that when done moderately, it is actually good for the penis. When done too strenuously it can lead to trouble.
No-one should attempt these exercises without guidance. I joined the website above, and read many many posts before starting, and I read a lot of posts in the injury forum before starting, so that I did not fall into the same traps. And even then, I got a minor injury once - but it got better in 3 days.
Not sure I'd believe that without seeing it Mark. Non-surgical penis enlargement looks like a pipe dream (if you'll pardon the pun ) to me.
I'll admit. I'm on the small side. But I expect that there is a range where size doesn't matter all that much. The vagina will expand/contract to accommodate and both partners will enjoy.
The real question is where is the too small/too large line?
Size matters? 
