Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Washington State
Re: Initiating sex....I can't do it.
I just posted in the ladies lounge a post that I think applies to this. It's easier than you think. If my wife "asks" I'll often say no, because her asking feels weird, almost as if she's asking because she thinks I want her to. But if she just reaches down and starts, I never say no. So as simple as it sounds, my advice is to just go for it. Pretend in your mind that your husband initiated already and you're just on to step two.