Re: My husband Last FOREVER!
20-30 minutes for a man is a long time if it's everytime and it is needed in order to orgasm. Most men do not require that long every time.
I thing though I'd mention is that if the husband was an 'early finisher' (like within a few minutes) and he wanted to prolong things, it could take 20-30 minutes. I know for me, there's not much inbetween actually. I can finish very quickly at the beginning if I wanted to, however if I tried to stretch it out for a while, I lose sensitivity down there somewhata and it then be very difficult to orgasm. Eventually I do (sort of hit the right spot) but it can take a while.
Of note, for me when it takes a while to orgasm, when I do it feels better to me personally. Same thing in the very odd instance that I'm allowed to go twice in one session. It can take a long time (an hour or more possibly for me) but that second orgasm feels even better than the first one.
Maybe he's holding out for a better orgasm? Also, to the OP, when he does orgasm, can you tell?