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Old 09-28-2012, 05:28 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I would have no problem doing something like this in the past, but could never even think about it with my wife. If the OP is either just dating for fun or fine with an open type relationship, then go for it. But if you ever want to get serious with this guy, then bringing a third person into the bed (especially another guy) would be a long-term detriment.
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Old 09-28-2012, 06:38 PM   #17 (permalink)
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He says if its a guy....I cant cuddle/kiss him..do nothin very intimate or personal....tat might both give the other guy a wrong signal....as well hurt my BF......it might be just physical....
Your BF doesn't want another man to kiss you or hug you, but he doesn't mind if he bends you over and plows away? Seriously?

I have never done a threesome, and doubt I ever could. But if I did, it would definitely be a last hurrah for a girl I didn't care about. I'm just a typical man who is territorial about the woman he cares about.
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Old 09-28-2012, 07:13 PM   #18 (permalink)
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In the last year, my W has told me about the threesome she encountered with a couple (I guess that's a FFM?) in her college years.... and then during the same period of time, she mentioned the MMF that she personally encouraged and more or less facilitated. There's more... but for brevity's sake I'll stop here.

Although I did learn some things, and those talks helped close the huge gap in our understanding of each other... I still would rather not have heard a single word about of any of it. You just can't 'unhear' things like that. =)
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Old 09-30-2012, 10:40 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Whatever floats yours and your bf's boat so to speak but please do understand that's there's always consequences to everything. What if you we're to experiment with another guy and though no kissing allowed ...... you moaned too much or too loud while with the other guy and this makes him jealous ???

Sooo many different factors can go wrong thus sometimes keeping this a fantasy to " fuel or spice " up the intamcy may be best IMHO !?
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i agree with samsad , in my opinion this is a direct message your bf is not even near ready for it,, either selfish or too conservative and both are bad
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Old 10-04-2012, 08:38 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Your thread title says he wants to include his friend. Do you know the other guy? Are you attracted to him?
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Old 10-06-2012, 01:22 AM   #22 (permalink)
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Done the mmf threesome a couple of times, was fun but definitely not something I would with anyone I had serious feelings for and saw a future with (there's not many relationships threesomes leave intact).
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All depending on how strong and secure your relationship is with the BF I'd say why not go for it. If it's exciting and will bring you two closer then go for it. Do understand there are always consequences regarding this but if you're young why not 7????
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Old 10-07-2012, 06:53 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Having sex with another person is as intimate as it gets.

You do it once, chances are he will want you to do it again, and again and so on.

I think that this is better left to the imagination!

There are always risks involved when you do things like this if you do decided to go for it.
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Old 10-16-2012, 04:24 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Well, lots of reasons for not doing it here. But, have any of these folks tried it?

Now first of all, his no-intimacy rule is probably from having no experience. That could very well change quickly when things heat up.

But as far as trying it ruining any chance for your relationship to last? I know many, many couples who tried it and still had a long happy marriage after.
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Old 10-16-2012, 04:33 AM   #26 (permalink)
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HUH? "He says if its a guy....I cant cuddle/kiss him..do nothin very intimate or personal....tat might both give the other guy a wrong signal....as well hurt my BF..."

Whats he expecting the other guy to do when the poor guy is in the middle of a highly charged sexual act - stand back and clap your boyfriend on or mark him like dancing with the stars ...... SEVEN!

Its clear this is a bomb waiting to go bang and itll leave casualties.
My optinion is like others here. You have toi have a real special relationship to indulge in this type of thing.
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Old 10-16-2012, 07:47 AM   #27 (permalink)
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If you want info from people who have done it to get more of a view,go put in [swinger board] and use their forum.You can get more on both sides of the story.
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Old 10-16-2012, 03:36 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Just to be clear...

MMF usually refers to a guy having sex with a guy and girl at the same time, meaning the guys are at least bisexual.

A MFM usually refers to a woman having sex with two guys, who only have incidental touching between themselves.

If you are actually saying your boyfriend wants a MMF with his friend, chances are he's already had the MM part of it with him.

Think about that.
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Old 10-16-2012, 03:57 PM   #29 (permalink)
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These things rarely work out.

They seem to destroy relationships rather than enhance their sex lives.

Think long and hard, and do your research before agreeing to it.
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Old 10-16-2012, 07:48 PM   #30 (permalink)
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yuck.
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