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Old 10-01-2012, 11:15 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I don't know if this is for the Sex in Marriage section or not, but I will try.

My best friend's daughter (aged 28) walked into the TV room and saw her father watching some very hard core porn.

She was absolutely disgusted in the thought of her dad watching that kind of degrading to women porn.

She doesn't want to speak to her father now and her mother (my friend) is totally disgusted in him as well and doesn't know how to handle the situation.

It is Thanksgiving next weekend here in Canada, and my friend would like to have all the family for dinner, but her daughter says she can't stand the sight of her dad now.

My friend is asking me how I think she should handle it all, but I have no idea.

Any suggestions?
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Old 10-01-2012, 11:17 AM   #2 (permalink)
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She's 28. Time to grow up. Oh, and its her dad, not her husband. Really none of her business what he watches.
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Old 10-01-2012, 11:19 AM   #3 (permalink)
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How does she think she came into this world? Immaculate conception?

Her dad likes sex. With women. And, because he's a man, he's visual. Tell her to put on her big girl panties and deal with it.
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When you said 28 I'm assuming the daughter is 28? Sorry head clogged from sinus mess. Just making sure I got it right!

Maybe they should hold a family meeting, and the daughter needs to tell her dad what she saw and how disgusted she was by it. Does he even know she walked in?
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Old 10-01-2012, 11:21 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Ya, well that being said, maybe the dad should make sure he's alone before viewing his porn. How gross, and no wonder she doesn't want to talk to him right now! Lots of us get the heebie-jeebies when we think of our parents doing anything sexual! Walking in on Dad and his hard core porn? Yuck. Mental images assaulting my brain right now!
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If watching the porn was all he was doing, she should count her blessings.
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Ya, well that being said, maybe the dad should make sure he's alone before viewing his porn. How gross, and no wonder she doesn't want to talk to him right now! Lots of us get the heebie-jeebies when we think of our parents doing anything sexual! Walking in on Dad and his hard core porn? Yuck. Mental images assaulting my brain right now!
Exactly.

The women he was looking at were probably close to his daughters age too, so that might be part of why shes bothered by it.
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Old 10-01-2012, 11:24 AM   #8 (permalink)
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friend should tell her daughter to stop being such an entitled little princess and get over it. So her dad was watching some porn,yeah it's gross to catch a parent doing ANYTHING sexual but geez, grow up!

edited to add, i do agree dad should be more discreet next time! but if she's 28, was it some sort of pop in and say hello visit? maybe he thought for sure he was alone and she just barged in and got all emotionally scarred?
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If watching the porn was all he was doing, she should count her blessings.
Lmao...exactly what I was thinking. :P


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Ya. It's one of those things that we know happens but we don't want to think about it, much less walk in on it...
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If watching the porn was all he was doing, she should count her blessings.
I agree !! If he's going to be crucified for not locking the door then i really feel for him ???

He could be doing so much worse than watching porn ..... perhaps his wife should browse thru some of these threads and start counting as Sbrown suggested ???
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You said the wife was disgusted too..so I'm assuming she didn't know her husband watched porn either? Wow what a double whammy!
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...from now on I'm going to make as much banging around as possible when dropping in on my parents, just to make sure I never have to post on here:

"Guess what guys, walked in on my parents acting out a BDSM scene my mom read in '50 Shades'..."
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Old 10-01-2012, 11:28 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Yes, the daughter is 28.

When she walked in, she screamed and called him disgusting and he hasn't said a word about it since.

My friend is also disgusted that her daughter saw it and is so mad about it, she hasn't said a word to the husband either but is keeping her distance from him.

This is a VERY religious family also.
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Ya. It's one of those things that we know happens but we don't want to think about it, much less walk in on it...
...in which case we'd have to burn our own eyes out.
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