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Old 05-26-2009, 01:11 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Well I like being pegged.

I have a collection of toys that I've used on myself. The xgf liked the idea of using them since I'd already used them.

When I got a strap on, she really enjoyed the feeling of power (and so did I!), of being "in charge". I'm not gay, but I enjoy the stimulation in that area.

One thing we liked was a double header, one end in her, the other in me. We'd get close to each other, lay my penis between her vulva lips and she'd use the Homedics massager on me/her. Killer orgasms!

We were both admitedly kinky. I miss that...sigh...
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Old 05-31-2009, 04:06 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Well, I made the offer and it was politely declined. It did open up a conversation on some outside-of-the-box (no pun intended) stuff, so maybe this will get interesting yet...
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Okay, so, my sex life is pretty awesome, but I wanna spice it up a bit, but my husband refuses..i find it kinda kinky to use a dildo on ur husband/partner..i mean, its used on us women..why cant we use it on our husbands? My husband doesnt agree to it, says its just wrong.... am i wrong for thinkin its kinky? Is there somethin wrong with wanting to use a dildo on your husband/partner?
Wouldnt force the issue (oh er!) if I were you. Wouldnt be for me either. If hes not keen on it, hes not keen.

A friend of mines wife had a fetish about seeing him having sex with another man. Their both into swinging etc anyway.

Well, he wouldnt quite go that far but was willing to perform oral sex on a fella. Wife loved it and he was happy to' take one for the team' as he said.

Again, NOT FOR ME !!!! LOL.
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I think if a lot of guys could get past the while "I'm not gay" thing they would learn to enjoy it.

I can't say my wife and I do it all the time but every once in a while we have a little fun. If she gets drunk she tends to get a little to wild and I need to back her off.
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Old 06-02-2009, 08:16 AM   #20 (permalink)
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I dont think I could handle watchin my hubby give another man head... there just aint no way... besides, he wouldnt go for that...if he sees 2 men kiss on tv he up chucks.. it was jus a thought, hes not into, im not gonna push it, i just enjoy teasen him about the whole issue.
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My wife told me the other day "why dont you order me a strap on?" ... I said OK, she then said "a big one.... I won't hurt you, don't worry"... I was thinking, how big????

Im ok with it. She has put things in me before, I liked it. You can write you name on the ceiling with cum when this is going on.
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My wife told me the other day "why dont you order me a strap on?" ... I said OK, she then said "a big one.... I won't hurt you, don't worry"... I was thinking, how big????
With some women, this activity seems to unlock a side to their sexuality that can be quite explosive
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Definately, MT! Mine did. We both enjoyed it..but since I was on the "receiving" end, I may have enjoyed it a little more.

Cone, look for something about your own size. You can "graduate" later. I used to be able to handle a 2" diameter...would have to retrain for that. Been a while.

I still love it, just no more opportunities...sigh...
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The only thing going in my ass is toilet paper. Man you guys! and I thought I was kinky. I do love rimming my wife though. Is that considered kinky???
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Nope,Martino...that's the start of a truly enjoyable journey.
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The only thing going in my ass is toilet paper. Man you guys! and I thought I was kinky. I do love rimming my wife though. Is that considered kinky???


LMAO! I love it Martino...lol the only thing going in my ass is toilet paper. ROFL.
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Old 06-14-2009, 10:22 PM   #27 (permalink)
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If either partner shys away from a suggestion to try something new, I've found the best answer is to simply put that particular idea on the shelf and remember it's ok to change your mind later. Knee-jerk responses of "NO WAY" can later be followed up with, "By the way ...." - indicating they're reconsidering.

A little time to think things through can erase a stigma - and open a door to something incredible!
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Nope,Martino...that's the start of a truly enjoyable journey.
Ewwwww !!! Not for me.....
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Definately, MT! Mine did. We both enjoyed it..but since I was on the "receiving" end, I may have enjoyed it a little more.

Cone, look for something about your own size. You can "graduate" later. I used to be able to handle a 2" diameter...would have to retrain for that. Been a while.

I still love it, just no more opportunities...sigh...
2" !!!!!

Flippin' heck. I have trouble with a large **** sometimes !!!
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MY H is very open to things and LOVES to explore that area of his sexuality...and I do to. I love to make him moan...and thats the best way to do it!!
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