05-26-2009, 08:26 AM
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Yorkshire, UK
| | Re: submissive wife
Originally Posted by humpty dumpty
good call okeydokie not quite sure what else some people need
I used to get bothered by my wife not initiating very much despite not rejecting me very often. When one person does all the initiating, the other can end up feeling they are not being desired. In the end we had a series of talks about it and she likened sex to a wonderful green pasture. (I'm not sure that she was likening herself to a cow...). She said she could see the green field, she wanted to go into it, but couldn't quite get past the fence. She said that when I initiated, it was like I carried her over the stile.
She has gotten a bit better at initiating, but she is also much more enthusiastic when I make a move, which at least gives me positive feedback.
Last edited by MarkTwain; 05-26-2009 at 09:13 AM.