Re: My Husband Won't Touch Me
so this started in late pregnancy, and hasn't changed since?
Are you nursing your baby?
Some men will stop sexual contact for fear of hurting you or the baby during pregnancy. Also, if you are lactating, for some men that is a big turnoff.
Combine that, with stress at work, and the demands of new parenthood, and of course the feeling that you can be interrupted at any moment, and he might be fleeing into his cave for his sanity.
When a baby arrives, it tends to take over the relationship. How much time do the two of you try to set aside just for each other? 4 months is a little early for baby sitters, but do you have grandparents close to help take that pressure off, and give you the night off for each other?