Does your spouse/partner like to kiss?

hubbys baby · 06-10-2009, 04:16 PM

Hi all,

I know this may see to be a silly question, just curious to know if anyone has spouses/partners that really aren't into kissing.

My husband kisses me very rarely, Its not his favorite thing and never has been, I on the other hand love it when we kiss, but anyways just curious about others.

Thanks

4oneone · 06-11-2009, 02:34 AM

Don't worry I have the same problem but my wife is the one she calls it spit swapping and does not take to it at all. Talk about being disconnected.

revitalizedhusband · 06-11-2009, 07:31 AM

My wife isn't much of a kisser either...even during sex she doesn't like to kiss much for some reason.

justean · 06-11-2009, 08:17 AM

i love kissing - can only speak for myself.

hubbys baby · 06-11-2009, 03:14 PM

thanks for replying....i was just kind of curious.....i don't write much or ask questions much on the site, but i do read a lot of the posts....i'm learning some things anyways....

MsLady · 06-12-2009, 05:19 PM

I think some people just aren't into kissing.

I love kissing, but sadly, not my husband. I just don't like the way he kisses and years of "re-training" have done nothing. His lips/saliva just don't taste good to me and that's just basic body chemistry.

He thinks I'm just not into kissing.

4oneone · 06-15-2009, 05:50 AM

That is a thought

DownButNotOut · 06-15-2009, 11:28 AM

I'm with Rhett Butler on this one.

"You should be kissed, and often. And by someone who knows how."

CherishMe · 06-30-2009, 10:21 AM

My husband isn't a big fan. He doesn't all-out refuse, but I rarely get a kiss unless I make it a point to get it myself. Oh well.

sisters359 · 06-30-2009, 10:45 AM

I love to kiss--but never loved to kiss my husband and quit doing so about 5 years ago. Not a good sign, if you ask me. Please ask your spouse if he just doesn't like the way you kiss--and then work on it, together, if so.

Some people have naturally shorter tongues and I think this makes good kissing harder, but not impossible. I've "investigated" in my past and anyone can be a better kisser, with practice.

cone · 06-30-2009, 04:35 PM

My wife loves to kiss and I love to kiss... and we love to kiss each other. Could do it for hours...

cao428 · 07-02-2009, 12:03 PM

I love kissing and my husband doesn't kiss me any more...something I really miss. To me it's a real turn-on and so sensual. He has some dental issues and says it's due to that, yet he has no problem eating a steak so I think it's just an excuse. It's been ever since his EA.

jivey · 07-02-2009, 09:15 PM

Me and my wife could spend hours kissing. We both enjoy each others kiss. My wife has a short tongue and did not have a clue on french kissing. Now with some coaching from me. She is now hot lips. I guess that was one of the things that she enjoyed most when we where dating was my kiss. Said it would make her melt...lol
Oh wait!! she just said it still does....

Sandy55 · 07-02-2009, 10:39 PM

Well we've been kissing for 27 years. Me kissing my dh really turns him on and the more we do it the more "heated" things become. Was that way from the beginning and still remains; sex is the same way....when we get the chance. Intensity has never slacked, and we are pretty amazed at this, because well, you read so much about sex becoming boring or whatever, and it just hasn't! I guess we are just very sexually compatible.

XiaSulin · 07-06-2009, 08:46 AM

Me and my spouse do not kiss. We kiss lightly but never on the lips, neither of us are into the tongues in the mouth touching ordeal. It's just slimy to us which makes it easier, because I remember us both being apprehensive about the other being into that sorta thing.