You are not crazy, someone is full of you know what!
When dh and I dated the first three years it was nearly daily, if we were in the same time zone
He was 33 and I was 27 when we started dating. We have very well matched sex drives; has been one of the high points of our marriage,
Years 1-5; 4-6 times a week
Years 6-10; 3-4 times a week.
Years 11-17; 2-3 times a week.
Years 18-24 (now) maybe once a month?
; he'd like
about twice a week, but he has vascular issues
, and he is still out of town
half the month, so it makes timing rather a factor.
He is 60 I am 53.
I'd like about 3 days a week in a perfect world.
Not related to the vascular issues he has, I am working on several resentment issues that have piled up in the last 5-6 years.
It is all I can do not to go find a lover somewhere, but am simply not going to fold to that weakness.
So, me and my shadow are about it 2-3 times a week.
I keep thinking: what a waste.
Because there are times I just want to kcuf the lleh tuo fo mih.