Re: No sex newlywed
Personally I think that before you divorce (or threaten to divorce him), explain to him EXACTLY how you feel, and what your needs are. Tell him that you cannot and will not live in a sexless/loveless marriage and you want him to man-up and be YOUR man... If he doesn't straighten out after that, then I can't blame you for leaving, but at least you gave him a fair shot and were honest w/ him. You really need to communicate honestly and open w/ him though because if he doesn't understand how serious this issue is to you, you will only build up loads of resentment for him (with MT's article explains more about) and even if later in your marriage he realizes what wrong he is doing and wants to fix it, this resentment you will hold will only complicate things further.
I know in my situation my wife with-held sex alot from me and that's why I went off on porn. I told her straight-up, porn is not a substitution for her, I'd rather have her anytime, but porn is my "backup" if you will for when she's not available or in the mood. Porn isn't so bad in moderation, but alot of guys become addicted to it and would rather whack to porn than be w/ their wives and that is wrong.
Just my .02 though...