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post #136 of 193 (permalink) Old 02-14-2013, 09:30 AM
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

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Thanks a lot for asking.My wife actually joked today that we we're not having sex again until I get circumcised.She still wants me to get it done.But I'm still not really that willing to entertain it.
what...the...****...

Tell her you don't like her nipples and you'll lop off your foreskin if she peels off a nipple.

Frankly, I think she knows this is an unfair demand and is expecting you to stand up for yourself, thereby using it as a reason to not have sex with you.

Check if an affair is going on, just to rule it out. Besides, there has to be a reason she suddenly wants a circumcised penis badly, maybe it's because she's already getting one? Hate to be the one to say it, but there's no harm in checking and ruling it out.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

Maricha Thanks for becoming more educated on the subject. I learned something also from your comments.

To be fair there are some not medically necessary reasons. As the recent studies show from subjects in sub-Saharan Africa, if a male insists on having unprotected sex, there is a slight but statistically significant decrease in the risk in contracting HIV. This makes perfect sense because it changes the the glands from a mucus membrane ( permeable), to a dry hardened calloused state. (Less permeable). It also became a common practice with nomadic desert cultures because of the arid conditions and difficulty in keeping it clean in that dusty arid environment. From watching History channel those desert sandstorms cause dust to get into everything and would cause WWII soldiers watches to stop functioning.

I wonder how she would react to you suggesting she have surgery to turn her vagina into a hardened, dry, calloused hole. She could always use lots of lube when she wanted to have sex. It would probably eliminate any funky odor issues and certainly reduce the incidence of yeast infections. Sounds like justification to me.

So Jack I suggest you tell her you are all game if she wants to join you in becoming a desert nomad, or go to sub-Saharan Africa and have lots of unprotected sex with the local inhabitants suffering from an HIV epidemic.

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Now, has she gotten any plastic surgery to remove excess skin from her rapid weight loss? There's a reason I ask this....
Thats a good question.She has definitely has excess skin from her weight loss, especially her arms.I think it looks a little nasty,to be honest..I never say anything about it though....No she's never gotten any surgery to remove the skin.
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Thats a good question.She has definitely has excess skin from her weight loss, especially her arms.I think it looks a little nasty,to be honest..I never say anything about it though....No she's never gotten any surgery to remove the skin.
Has SHE ever mentioned wanting to get it? Now, you COULD tell her that you don't find all that excess skin attractive, but you never said anything because you didn't want to hurt her. It's elective. No one HAS to get the skin removed. Just as, in this case, if you were to get circ'd, it would be elective...you don't HAVE to do it. So, don't do it just to make her happy. Now, if you're thinking of using it as a bartering technique...don't. She needs to want to remove that because SHE wants it, just as your foreskin should only be removed because YOU want it. You are an adult, you can make your own decision about it. If it's not medically necessary, I wouldn't do it...

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This is one of the most astonishing demands I think I have ever come across.

As a woman I cannot in my wildest dreams imagine insisting that my partner be circumcised unless there were sound medical reasons for it (in which case I would assume he would want it done anyway).

As it happens I have never been with a circumcised man. I have also never been with one who did not clean himself properly. Rest assured I would boot out anyone who wasn't clean.

Foreskins are fun! Keep it.
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Lots of women prefer a circumcised penis and for many reasons. The reasons are as follows - visual - they hate the sight of a covered penis when limp - it is UGLY - when cut it looks erotic even when limp - like it is ready for them and action, cleanliness - intact men often do not clean their penis before they present it for sex - either oral or penetrative - and it smells bad and tastes worse. Disease - cervical cancer, HPV and generally being a breeding ground for nasty things.

I know of women whose husbands are intact that would really prefer that they be clipped - they never want that worm stuffed into their mouths - or near their mouths....

It is not that big a deal - but use it to make a deal - if you do this for her - exactly what is it that you want in trade in return - how about an agreement to have sex x days per week - forever - non negotiable and put it in writing - with a penalty clause.... Let the negotiations begin....

Oh and all the stuff that is out there - is not that big a deal - 20,000 nerve endings - not 20,000 nerves mind you - and where did this come from anyway? The centre of pleasure for the penis is not the foreskin - it is the glans - circumcised men have sex - there are 1.6 billion Muslims - half of which are circumcised men. Given their rates of population increase - they are having a lot of sex. Most men circumcised as adults and their partners report very high levels of satisfaction - but I caution you - you better be into this as much as she is or you will resent it - and blame it for your short comings - forever. So try surgical tape first and see how you like it exposed all the time....
You can put sex everyday in a contract. You cannot enforce that contract. The sex does not have to be good. Read the "corpse position" thread. What's the penalty going to be ? 10 lashings?

Could you describe the bad taste in more detail ? From your experience.

Vaginas are a breeding ground for all sorts of nasty things and odors if not properly cared for. So your answer to that would be what?

HPV does not appear spontaneously. It is an SDT. STDs are one of the most highly preventable diseases that exist.

So when you get pleasure from your penis it is only from the glans, the rest of it can be completely ignored ?

The 20,000 nerve endings comes from science. Are you one of those that does not believe in science ? Try this experiment. Next time you are about to taste an OEM penis ask the owner if you can rub some sandpaper over his foreskin. You could also go to a hospital and ask a new mother who is about to mutilate her child if you could pinch her son's foreskin since it wont hurt him anyway. Observe the baby's response.

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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

Don't do it unless YOU want to do it. In the long run, I don't think very many women care if a guy is circumcised or uncircumcised. I'm not circumcised and my wife didn't even notice until we had been fooling around for a few months. All she ever said was "Oh, I never noticed that you're not circumcised" and that was all we ever talked about the subject.
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This is one of the most astonishing demands I think I have ever come across.

As a woman I cannot in my wildest dreams imagine insisting that my partner be circumcised unless there were sound medical reasons for it (in which case I would assume he would want it done anyway).


A penis, is a penis, is a penis, is a penis.
She needs to get over it.
In the mean time start bugging her for a boob job.
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My first thought was WTF!!!!!! This girl is CRAZY.... And let it go at that. Then It crept into my thick skull.

She has read somewhere that uncircumcised men can transmit things like HPV, chlamydia, etc... more easily than guts who have been cut.

Now she is fixated on it, feels uneasy about it, but dosn't want to tell you her reasons because she dosn't want to make you feel as if she thinks you aren't clean......In this context, it makes perfect sense.......
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My first thought was WTF!!!!!! This girl is CRAZY.... And let it go at that. Then It crept into my thick skull.

She has read somewhere that uncircumcised men can transmit things like HPV, chlamydia, etc... more easily than guts who have been cut.

Now she is fixated on it, feels uneasy about it, but dosn't want to tell you her reasons because she dosn't want to make you feel as if she thinks you aren't clean......In this context, it makes perfect sense.......

I would just like to add....From Monty Pythons "The meaning of life"

Isn't it awfully nice to have a penis?
Isn't it frightfully good to have a dong?
It's swell to have a stiffy,
It's divine to own a dic-k.
From the tiniest little tadger
To the world's biggest pric-k!
So three cheers for your willy or John Thomas.
Hooray for your one-eyed trousers snake.
Your piece of pork,
your wife's best friend,
Your Percy or your coc-k.
You can wrap it up in ribbons,
You can slip it in your sock.
Just don't take it out in public,
Or they will put you in the dock ...
And you won't
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A penis, is a penis, is a penis, is a penis.
She needs to get over it.
In the mean time start bugging her for a boob job.
Ummmm... I don't think that will work. Considering how much weight she has recently lost, I think she already WANTS to get that. So, she would probably be more than happy to make THAT agreement.... boob job if he gets circ...

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Agreed Maricha.

I don't want my wife doing anything surgical to hers. The risk of loss of sensitivity isn't worth it.
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Don't do it!

How rude of her to ask.

Ask her to get her vag tightened. That should help a bit.


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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

Honestly, I still think this isn't about whether or not she likes circ vs not circ.... I think it's about all the sh!t he has pulled on her the last few months and this is her lashing out at HIS sh!t. My personal preferences make no difference here, and as stated before, he should NOT get it done unless MEDICALLY necessary.

And about the boob job comment...if her problems are/were anything like mine, then hers IS medically necessary.

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Don't do it!

How rude of her to ask.

Ask her to get her vag tightened. That should help a bit.
What is he to do if she agrees to this?
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