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post #181 of 193 (permalink) Old 02-27-2013, 02:47 AM
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

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and we chose to get our sons circumcised as well
Why? Shouldn't that be their decision to make? What if they regret this when they reach adulthood?
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Why? Shouldn't that be their decision to make? What if they regret this when they reach adulthood?
Of course that gets picked out of my post. My husband and I made the decision together. I have posted it quite a few times already. I believe, even in this thread, but also in others. Where our first son was born, there were no mohels, and because I am not Jewish, we didn't believe one would do it anyway. For the second son, we were in an area we could find a mohel, but again, I am not Jewish.


That is the condensed version of my replies. Please, don't turn this into a debate, again. This thread isn't the place for debating whether or not my husband and I should have gotten our sons circumcised. The oldest, being old enough to understand the difference, has indicated no resentment or anger or anything toward us because he was circumcised. And his dad has no problems with his own, having been done when he was a baby as well.

So please, now that I have answered, again, leave it off this thread. The answer is in other threads, including, I believe, a debate thread in a different sub-forum.

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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

This is 20+ years ago, when my wife and I had been dating for about a year, I asked her if she had any issues with the fact that I was uncircumcised...

Her: "Seriously?"

Me: "Just wondered"

Her: "Why? There is no way it could work any better."

Awesome

Oh, and for the poster that shall not be named, as some of you know- my wife is a doc, and she has never quoted any of the non- scientific bs seen in these threads. It's called soap.

Jack, this is a false topic being raised by your wife. She's never had an issue up till now. As others have noted, I agree that it's just a weapon being used based on the current state of your marriage.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

After several years of marriage my husband developed forskin problems and had to have a circumcision (we are in the UK where such things are unusual).
Two years later I am used to the 'new' version and to be honest, apart from looking slightly more attractive it does not make much difference to me.
However, it had effected my husbands behaviour (for the better, in my opinion). He is less able to 'ahem', handle himself, and is much more dependant on me to keep him happy. It has, to be honest, made me the boss in bed and I like it!
He has to keep in my good books if he wants to be happy, and I make sure he does, in bed and out of it.
I wonder if the wife of the man who started this thread knows this, and that's why he wants him done?
I am against circumcising babies, but recommend it for any wife who wants to take control. Sisters unite!
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I prefer cut but wouldn't go into a marriage thinking he will undergo surgery later. If it's not cut from jump then I wouldn't pursue it out of my own fairness to myself and to him. Your wife definitely has something underlying going on. Good luck.
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I am against circumcising babies, but recommend it for any wife who wants to take control. Sisters unite!
This battle of the sexes mentality is why many people think twice about marriage. Wow.
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I am against circumcising babies, but recommend it for any wife who wants to take control. Sisters unite!
WTFE!
My circumcised husband is in control. Always has been, always will be. I'll initiate on occasion, but HE is the one in control, as WE prefer. "Sisters unite"? My ass! I'd rather "untie" those particular bonds of sisterhood!

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My circumcised husband is in control. Always has been, always will be. I'll initiate on occasion, but HE is the one in control, as WE prefer. "Sisters unite"? My ass! I'd rather "untie" those particular bonds of sisterhood!
What's she talking about is that masturbating is far less pleasurable for her husband so he's much more inclined to have sex instead of masturbate.

Goes back to the real reason circumcision was pushed to begin with: it reduced masturbation before the widespread availability of lubricants.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

DO NOT DO IT. That is an asinine request and you WILL regret it, dearly.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

It's an utterly barbaric and unnecessary ritual.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

I have a good idea why.

I am 42, been married for 20 years. I am unable to have vaginal sex or receiving oral due to health problems and havent for many, many years.

On top of that, I have an agreement with my husband and I date other men, kind of an open marriage but not exacly.

Because of my problems down south, most of the sex I have is me giving blowjobs. Now me saying that, I don't date uncircumsided because they don't usually do a good job at keeping their penis clean under the foreskin and that is the most discusting thing.

Sorry for being too graphic.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

Maybe theres more to it then what shes telling you. There was more to my issue then just wanting him to get it done for no reason.

How to ask your husband to get circumcised??
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

You should do what your wife tells you to do. She is what you should be thinking of pleasing. Her whims and her pleasure are all that matter. She rules and you obey. Welcome to the modern world ruled by women.
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