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post #31 of 193 (permalink) Old 02-09-2013, 11:28 PM
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

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Sigh... let's not turn this into a debate over whether it is right to get your child circumcised or not, mmmk? Jack asked if ladies have ever asked their SO to get circumcised. I mentioned that his wife MAY be bringing this up because of her PREVIOUS low self-esteem, and she may have been afraid before because she was afraid she would be alone. But it could also be related to ALL the other issues they have going on. I think THEY should discuss WHY she asked this, and if he doesn't want to do it, then he shouldn't do it. Just as she has the right to refuse certain requests he may make/has made.

I never asked my husband to get circumcised. His was done 8 days after he was born. Since I am not Jewish, our boys were done when they were one day old. I'm not debating whether we should or should not have done it. It's done. And we would choose to do it again, although we would probably have searched for a mohel to do it, even though I am not Jewish. But I digress...

My husband's circumcised penis has not inhibited our sex life. No problems with sensation, no problems when having sex, period.

Anyway, like I said, this isn't the thread to debate infant circumcision. There's one in the debate section already.
You are correct. I apologize to the OP for hijacking the thread. I wasn't aware there was a debate thread. I'll take my rantings and ravings over there.
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Right what do women have against uncircumcised penises?
GMAFB Jack. Considering the BS you have pulled on your wife in the last few months? MY preference of circumcised vs uncircumcised should not even concern you. I stated my personal preference and the fact that I am HAPPY with my HUSBAND'S penis. So, it makes me shallow because I LIKE how MY HUSBAND'S penis looks... GMAFB!

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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

He should be focusing on the cheese.

Hehe ok I'll stop... couldn't resist
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My husband is uncut and I have never had an issue with it. It's just more to play with.

I would have to say there is a whole lot more to this than just her not liking the "look" of an uncircumcised penis. This is her escape goat to the real problem.
I'd say you are probably correct. I think there is a LOT more than just that she doesn't like how it looks...as I pointed out in the first post I made in the thread. It is likely related to all the nonsense Jack threw her way the last few months and she was saying it to shock him. Either way, they need to figure out WHY she said it in the first place, when she at least appeared to be ok with it in the beginning.

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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

I am a doctor also...dont do it unless you are having a medical problem with the foreskin.

I had it done to me as a baby (my dad did not and my brother did not)....my mother claims she cried about it and they pressured her...hum..

Personally I hate it......I wish I was intact.

I have read posts by several women who state that the PIV sex is way way better. It helps with lube. It surely makes it more sensitive...

Its so funny too that in a culture obsessed with penis size....we would cut 1/3 (sometimes more) of the total skin surface area off this personal organ.

Its a horrible thing to do to a baby...it should be 100% illegal....it can always be done where the guy is 18 and can decide on his own....Muslims do it as teens...the pain is not that bad....

All the "medical" reasons for doing it to babies are really BS....there are excellent documentaries on this....

I would never ever allow my son to be circumcised...if I ever have one...no more than I would have allowed someone to take a scalpel to my daughters private parts.

No way.

Step back..it makes no sense to cut off this part of a man's body.....its absolutely religious tradition and that is it. Everything else are rationalizations.

There are exceptions for medical reasons...my 44 year old brother has medical problems that make it hard for him to take care of his hygiene...he got a serve urinary tract infection....and circ is a good option to prevent in future....

That is the exception..

Whatever your beliefs...natural selection or a creator....in either case a "higher power" put that skin there.....it should be left alone unless it actually causes a problem.

Everyone know about the case of the boy who had the entire penis zapped off during one....Dr John Money at Hopkins tried to have him raised as a girl....after having him castrated also.....

It never worked....it was a horror story and it ruined the mans life.

there are many other complication cases...

Its not worth even ONE case of a normal lovely baby boy losing his penis for life or partial functionality for life.
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Sharp objects and penises shouldn't be in the same sentence together
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

Also...I NEVER understand WOMEN who complain about foreskin...

Considering all the flaps and folds that they have in their own anatomy.

I think its all beautiful and interesting. All variations. Should we be cutting labia's to a specific size...for cosmetic reasons?

I just cant understand where any women has a point of any kind.

This is just cultural and cosmetic....and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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God sure hates his foreskins though, maybe that's an influence no?
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

I've dated one guy who was uncirced. He was DISGUSTING. I can't tell you how many UTI's I got from his nasty habits of not cleaning. Not saying all uncirced guys are like that, but he turned me off. Not to mention I too like the look of a circed penis hands down. Would you date a woman who was 300lbs overweight? No? Are you shallow? It's just something that I care about, something that would make me definitely think twice before continuing in a relationship with a person due to my past experiences. Personal preference, and nothing to get bent out of shape over. Like Maricha said, it doesn't effect you.
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I am a doctor also...dont do it unless you are having a medical problem with the foreskin.

Personally I hate it......I wish I was intact.

I have read posts by several women who state that the PIV sex is way way better. It helps with lube. It surely makes it more sensitive...

Its so funny too that in a culture obsessed with penis size....we would cut 1/3 (sometimes more) of the total skin surface area off this personal organ.


Step back..it makes no sense to cut off this part of a man's body.....its absolutely religious tradition and that is it. Everything else are rationalizations.

There are exceptions for medical reasons...my 44 year old brother has medical problems that make it hard for him to take care of his hygiene...he got a serve urinary tract infection....and circ is a good option to prevent in future....

That is the exception..

Whatever your beliefs...natural selection or a creator....in either case a "higher power" put that skin there.....it should be left alone unless it actually causes a problem.
Again, this thread is not about INFANT circumcision. It is about JACK'S WIFE requesting that HE get it done. So, the part of your post that is relevant to THIS thread is that he should not get it done unless it is medically necessary. The rest is better served in the thread in the debate section.

ETA: I'll even make it easy on people: Male insight on male circumcision

There's the debate thread.

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I've dated one guy who was uncirced. He was DISGUSTING. I can't tell you how many UTI's I got from his nasty habits of not cleaning. Not saying all uncirced guys are like that, but he turned me off. Not to mention I too like the look of a circed penis hands down. Would you date a woman who was 300lbs overweight? No? Are you shallow? It's just something that I care about, something that would make me definitely think twice before continuing in a relationship with a person due to my past experiences. Personal preference, and nothing to get bent out of shape over. Like Maricha said, it doesn't effect you.
And this is why I reckon it's the cheese. It has to be. I wasn't joking about it although it may have seemed like I was lol

I reckon OP's wife was just being nice hence she didn't bring it up until now.
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I am a doctor also...dont do it unless you are having a medical problem with the foreskin.

I had it done to me as a baby (my dad did not and my brother did not)....my mother claims she cried about it and they pressured her...hum..

Personally I hate it......I wish I was intact.

I have read posts by several women who state that the PIV sex is way way better. It helps with lube. It surely makes it more sensitive...

Its so funny too that in a culture obsessed with penis size....we would cut 1/3 (sometimes more) of the total skin surface area off this personal organ.

Its a horrible thing to do to a baby...it should be 100% illegal....it can always be done where the guy is 18 and can decide on his own....Muslims do it as teens...the pain is not that bad....

All the "medical" reasons for doing it to babies are really BS....there are excellent documentaries on this....

I would never ever allow my son to be circumcised...if I ever have one...no more than I would have allowed someone to take a scalpel to my daughters private parts.

No way.

Step back..it makes no sense to cut off this part of a man's body.....its absolutely religious tradition and that is it. Everything else are rationalizations.

There are exceptions for medical reasons...my 44 year old brother has medical problems that make it hard for him to take care of his hygiene...he got a serve urinary tract infection....and circ is a good option to prevent in future....

That is the exception..

Whatever your beliefs...natural selection or a creator....in either case a "higher power" put that skin there.....it should be left alone unless it actually causes a problem.

Everyone know about the case of the boy who had the entire penis zapped off during one....Dr John Money at Hopkins tried to have him raised as a girl....after having him castrated also.....

It never worked....it was a horror story and it ruined the mans life.

there are many other complication cases...

Its not worth even ONE case of a normal lovely baby boy losing his penis for life or partial functionality for life.
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God sure hates his foreskins though, maybe that's an influence no?
...Then why is it there?
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For us to sacrifice to God! lol
Sorry, I just found the OT amusing
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I've dated one guy who was uncirced. He was DISGUSTING. I can't tell you how many UTI's I got from his nasty habits of not cleaning. Not saying all uncirced guys are like that, but he turned me off. Not to mention I too like the look of a circed penis hands down. Would you date a woman who was 300lbs overweight? No? Are you shallow? It's just something that I care about, something that would make me definitely think twice before continuing in a relationship with a person due to my past experiences. Personal preference, and nothing to get bent out of shape over. Like Maricha said, it doesn't effect you.
Someone weighing 300lbs is a major health issue(diabetes, heart issues, joint issues, high blood pressure, etc. all common from obesity), while not liking an uncircumcised penis is purely cosmetic. There is a big difference there. The guy you dated had horrible hygiene issues, nothing more, nothing less(nothing to do with being uncirc.). I find it shallow when people won't give someone a chance because of the way they look(circ. vs. uncirc.). I find that to be wrong.
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