Nothing like a good thread jacking to obscure the discussion.
Blame me.... and the fact that I am biased toward my husband's penis.... I think that's what derailed it in the first place.
However, I will reiterate: Jack, if you have no medical reason, no problems with your penis, then do not do it just to make her happy... IF, in fact, she was even serious about it.
I have my doubts about that. I truly suspect she threw out an outlandish request, merely as payback for the anal request (badgering)... OH! here's a thought! Draw up a contract! Tell her that you will get circumcised, if she will consent to anal. AND, get it notarized. Legal document, neither can back out....
(no, people, I don't mean that. I was being sarcastic)
Jack, don't get it done. Yes, I have stated my preference. But I will also state that I would not... I repeat WOULD NOT
ask a man to get circumcised just to make me happy.
Now, some have stated that I am shallow because, as RD pointed out, I have *spousal bias*. I have zero intention of having sex with any man other than my husband, for the rest of my life. So, really, my preferences are moot. My preferences are related to the man in my bed...the man I married...who happens to be circumcised.