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post #106 of 193 (permalink) Old 02-11-2013, 03:13 PM
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

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I think it's really silly of her to ask you to get circumcised after she's been having sex with you all these years uncircumcised. What were the circumstances under which she asked?

I personally am not at all attracted to the look of uncircumcised penises, and that could be the case for her as well but I doubt it since she married you "un-cut".
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Better watch out, Aribabe... you might get called shallow, too.
But I would guess RD's assessment applies to you, as well, right... *spousal bias*?

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I think it's really silly of her to ask you to get circumcised after she's been having sex with you all these years uncircumcised. What were the circumstances under which she asked?

I personally am not at all attracted to the look of uncircumcised penises, and that could be the case for her as well but I doubt it since she married you "un-cut".
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We were discussing some sexual matters and then we stopped talking for a few seconds.She then said,"Hey,do you ever think about getting circumcised?I paused for a second and said no....She claims to have told me before that she would prefer the way it looks if I were to get circumcised,but I don't remember this................So what is it about an uncircumcised penis that you don't like?I think women are just used to circumcised penises and thats why they don't like uncircumcised penises.
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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

I've never had any complaints......

Don't do it, nothing is better than OEM!
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just a little snip and all will be well.........NOT

something else is up.
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My wife and I would not be married if I was uncut.
Just as you mentioned, that is her preference. Lucky me.

As to your post, Jack has made some unique posts.
You seem to tie it up all well in your analogy.
Whoa is it really that serious?You mean to tell me you make a woman laugh,show her love and affection,protect her,etc.,and she can't be with the man because he is uncircumcised?
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Whoa is it really that serious?You mean to tell me you make a woman laugh,show her love and affection,protect her,etc.,and she can't be with the man because he is uncircumcised?
AAAANNNNNNDDDDDD...... there are some who wouldn't be with a man who IS circumcised... It all comes down to PERSONAL preference. Your point being?

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I dont see the big deal, if that would make her love my penis more than Id be at the doctors office quick. You need every advantage you can get.
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AAAANNNNNNDDDDDD...... there are some who wouldn't be with a man who IS circumcised... It all comes down to PERSONAL preference. Your point being?
I understand what he's saying. If I thought me being circumcised or not was a deal breaker to my wife then I would find it shallow that my parents decision at my birth dictates weather I'm worthy of being with her. Not character but skin on my member is the criteria.

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So it sounds like she wasn't really serious, it sounds almost like a passing thought to me. Myhusband has said, would you ever consider getting a pericing etc, but it's not a serious question. She may be a woman who has a prefernce for the look of a circumcised penis, but since she's been sleeping with ou uncut all this time then I doubt it. Maybe she was thinking aloud?

I just don't like the look of the shriveled skin mostly, or the head peaking out of it, or the glossy stickyness that seems to accumulate on the tip... idk lol.

I'm most likely pretty biased though, I've only been with cut men intimately, and have only ever seen an un-cut penis once in person.

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We were discussing some sexual matters and then we stopped talking for a few seconds.She then said,"Hey,do you ever think about getting circumcised?I paused for a second and said no....She claims to have told me before that she would prefer the way it looks if I were to get circumcised,but I don't remember this................So what is it about an uncircumcised penis that you don't like?I think women are just used to circumcised penises and thats why they don't like uncircumcised penises.
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So it sounds like she wasn't really serious, it sounds almost like a passing thought to me. Myhusband has said, would you ever consider getting a pericing etc, but it's not a serious question. She may be a woman who has a prefernce for the look of a circumcised penis, but since she's been sleeping with ou uncut all this time then I doubt it. Maybe she was thinking aloud?

I just don't like the look of the shriveled skin mostly, or the head peaking out of it, or the glossy stickyness that seems to accumulate on the tip... idk lol.

I'm most likely pretty biased though, I've only been with cut men intimately, and have only ever seen an un-cut penis once in person.


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If you haven't seen them flaccid then you wouldn't always know. Any guy who you've only seen or felt hard may not be cut and it would be hard to tell.

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Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous

I don't think i've ever seen a guy hard, in person, without also seeing him flaccid. The one man i saw who was uncut, i was unable to be intimate with, but i did seem him flaccid.

idk, it's really not particularly important.I suppose we all have our "thing" that we just can't "get down" with.

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If you haven't seen them flaccid then you wouldn't always know. Any guy who you've only seen or felt hard may not be cut and it would be hard to tell.
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Any guy who you've only seen or felt hard may not be cut and it would be hard to tell.
I think if someone had a LOT of experience, they would know immediately. Foreskin feels REALLY good, and the intact man is a lot more responsive and there is much less friction - and more of a plush filled up feeling - for intercourse.
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I dont see the big deal, if that would make her love my penis more than Id be at the doctors office quick. You need every advantage you can get.
You'd really undergo a procedure to make her want your penis more? Sorry, but if my fiancee told me that (or even if she was my wife) I'd be openly discussing an exit strategy with her if she didn't change her thinking.
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If I thought me being circumcised or not was a deal breaker to my wife then I would find it shallow that my parents decision at my birth dictates weather I'm worthy of being with her. Not character but skin on my member is the criteria.
Totally agreed. It's very shallow.
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Yes if you wish to put it that way.
People have preferences, she likes a penis that is cut.
Exactly. And I find it interesting that I haven't seen, in all the time I have been on here, any woman who prefers uncircumcised penis being called shallow... unless I missed those posts somewhere....

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