Re: Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous
Why does she want this? This is not something to be taken lightly. She does not seem to realize what she is asking.
Having this done in adulthood is potentially traumatic. There is risk of infection, pain, decreased sensitivity compared to what you feel now.
It is usually done when there is a problem with the foreskin like he previous posters husband.
Your wife seems to be asking this on a whim. She does not know why the procedure was done on the BIL.
Get more info from her as to why. Tell her about your research about the procedure. then ask her if is so serious a reason as to make you go through the proceedure.
This will make it seem like you are taking her into consideration in your decision. It is your body though. If you asked her to get her labia trimmed, how woukd she react?
No matter what you talk about, please don't have the proceedure done.
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