Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Jakarta, Indonesia
Re: Me and my husband no longer have sex!!!! And it's killing me!!!
Dear Mrs. Angela.
I believe your husband is now in a very very low point in his life. Simply put, his ego is bruised and battered right now, and he is so hurt, he is afraid to try anything. He is a different man at this point of his life.
Marriage is a Teamwork. Now he is in trouble, therefore, the two of you should work together to improve this situation. He needs to be "uplifted". With lots of love and patience, he might be able to climb himself out of his current predicament, and provide you with a fulfilling sex life.
But, if he refused to be lifted out of his situation, that's no teamwork, that's one side work.
If he keeps on refusing to get help, refusing to take medicine, refusing to acknowledge the fact that his not having any libido is making YOU sad. then it's NOT a teamwork.
If you two could make it work, fine, I say your marriage is worth fighting for.
If there are no teamwork, it's not a marriage, and should be terminated accordingly.
Much luck in any roads you choose!