No sex for 3 years
My husband is in his early 30s, I am in my late 20s. We've been married for 5 years. No Kids(you'll find out why). About 3 years ago we stopped having sex. We would make out, kiss, foreplay, cuddling and other fun stuff, but no SEX. During foreplay, I would be ready to have sex but by then his erection would be gone. He would get an erection for a few mins and then when it came time for intercourse, he would get soft and lose the erection. Leaving me unsatisfied.
A few questions.
1) what is wrong with him? he is not that old to not have sex.
2) I've notice myself being cranky, I read online if a women goes without sex for a while, she'll be agitated and cranky.
3) I've also noticed him being more irritable.
I've told him to get fertility testing done. He refuses.
I don't know what to do. I love him, regardless of everything.
any advice, tips, personal experience...