The issue is: women don't want to be treated like a receptacle for a bodily function needing to be fulfilled.
If you have the urge for getting your bodily function off just take care of it with five fingered Frank for heaven sakes.
If you have the urge for a more difficult connection of the sensitive, mind to mind, love and caring contact TYPE, act like it
and you will get laid.
Women have the URGE which mimics men, when they ovulate. Figure out when your wife's ovulation cycle is and work around that if you just want raw sex and she will be willing. Any other time it is going to take some wooing BECAUSE either she isn'tfeeling very loving toward you (frustrated with you or resentful) or she is just plain TIRED.
rocket science, but it is the way it is.
Some men out there think we women LIKE the moods from outerspace...NOT. It isn't EASY dealing with hormones up and down and sideways....and you add SOME men on top of all that who can't think with anything but their little brain and anger, well, it just
me off that some people just can't figure it out! Men sometimes just don't want to go to the trouble and women can see that a MILE away!
LOOK AT THE CALENDAR!!!!!!!