Last night my wife admitted to me that she thinks she is bi-sexual.
How do I handle this.
I said "Well you could've told me that before we got married 7 years ago"
But she has admitted kissing two girls in the past 1 year. She said it didn't go further then that and she told me who they are but yeh how about that for a surprise.
Not sure how to take it but. She said don't worry I still love you more then ever and couldn't imagine my life without you.
You don't get that every day in marriage do you.
Could be worse she could be a lesbian like my friends wife turned out to be.
A large proportion of people are bi-sexual, it's just men repress it more than women, with women its positivly fashionable.
Just because she feels she's bi-sexual doesn't give her licence to start shagging women, it shouldn't change anything in your marraige. Humans don't have to indulge every impulse they have.
I think it would be a big mistake on your part to see this as an oppurtunity for a threesome. Tell her you expect her to abide by your marraige vows and then move on.
Most men would be on cloud 9..lol, I had a friend (had) who was into everything...and tried to pull me in...She told me very often that If I would ....... with her I would never go back to my husband...
Now she was married and told me she knew frm expireance...that women are better in bed....
NO I didn't do it...lol just a food for thought...
i guess we all "have a friend" that went through something like this. my buds wife expressed the same to him and he went thru with the threesome thing. he regretted it because the more they did it the less attention his wife paid to him. be careful what you wish for
I came out to my husband not long after we got married, he loved the idea, but said absolutely no 3 somes, and i dont mind. I find it funny that we both have different taste in women, very weird. I do agree with the above statement, take her to a strip club, the sex afterwards will be awsome. Having a bi-sexual wife always has its advantages.
i guess we all "have a friend" that went through something like this. my buds wife expressed the same to him and he went thru with the threesome thing. he regretted it because the more they did it the less attention his wife paid to him. be careful what you wish for
Being bisexual doesn't mean one is more promiscuous or more likely to look outside the marriage. Even if someone is potential attracted to a much larger percentage of the population than a straight or gay person - commitment is commitment.
You can be lots of things ,you can be bi sexual, bi friendly etc etc.My hubby and i have both played with the same sex,just for fun with each other and for each other.Neither one of us is bi sexual-just open.I am not sexually attracted to women and my hubby is not to men. Sexuality is a truely amazing and delicate thing.We are very open with each other.She should be open with you ...you are her husband.You can have fun with it as long as you are both open ,secure ,honest and you are both comfortable.
How is it a women or man JUST realizes that they are Bi?
They don't. They just admit it to your SO.
I also agree there are many levels to Bi. I like when my mate plays with toys on me and have even wondered what the real thing felt like but I'm not into men. I have zero interest in being with a man but that doesn't mean I don't wonder.
My wife told me she is bisexual.
