Do men think "Down There" on a woman is gross?

voivod · 09-16-2009, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Lizzie60

No foreplay = quickie (in my book)

actually, drawing from experience, no foreplay equals longie rather than quickie. woman with no foreplay could be non-orgasmic for a lonnnggg time. think?

chuckf75 · 09-17-2009, 06:29 AM

For Hubby, I have seen this before. When I first met my wife she didn't want me to go down on her but now can'y get enough. I gently but firmly made her lay back and did my thing. Told her I was going to do it one way or another so she better relax! lol Hope you know what you are doing today as this is the easiest way to get a girl off. Focus on the clit with some rytham, everything else is fun and games. I gave her 7 Os last night this way...

okeydokie · 09-17-2009, 07:18 AM

i will tell you, not keeping that area trimmed (too much hair) keeps me away, i just dont like it and that is an issue in my house too. if you want to repel a man, keep your area that way. i dont know one guy that likes it.

unsettled · 09-17-2009, 08:58 AM

I'm in the same boat. My DH is very old fashioned. He thinks giving me oral is just gross. He has done it only a couple times in 17 years but just to shut me up and I knew he hated doing it so couldn't enjoy it. He sure doesn't mind the other way around though which isn't fair.
He doesn't even like to kiss or get kinky, just very straight and boring sex which is getting to me amongst other things.

hubby · 09-17-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by chuckf75

For Hubby, I have seen this before. When I first met my wife she didn't want me to go down on her but now can'y get enough. I gently but firmly made her lay back and did my thing. Told her I was going to do it one way or another so she better relax! lol Hope you know what you are doing today as this is the easiest way to get a girl off. Focus on the clit with some rytham, everything else is fun and games. I gave her 7 Os last night this way...

I have thought about that a lot. However, I think we may be past the point of no return, as far as just springing it on her goes. We have talked about it a few times and she told me explicitly not to just go down without talking about it first. At this point, I think it would hurt more than help just to go for it. I know she has a few issues with her lady business that she is talking to her OB/GY that she want to take care of first, so I may just have to be patient. I know she is thinking about it as she has been slowly changing from an affro to a landing strip down there. In the mean time, I may just tease her a little from time to time and see how close I can get to the goods before she stops me. I know I have a little room to play with kisses on her leg, tummy area that is in the safe zone. I will just keep getting closer and closer to the bullseye until she screems...either in a good or bad way

Lizzie60 · 09-17-2009, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by voivod

actually, drawing from experience, no foreplay equals longie rather than quickie. woman with no foreplay could be non-orgasmic for a lonnnggg time. think?

That doesn't make sense... if there is no foreplay.. then it's a quickie.. why do you think it's called a quickie..

voivod · 09-17-2009, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Lizzie60

That doesn't make sense... if there is no foreplay.. then it's a quickie.. why do you think it's called a quickie..

silly, i'm thinking of helping the female reach the end result. have never been with a woman thast didn't want the "boom goes the dynamite." it takes longer for most women to reach orgasm without foreplay, therefore "lonnnggg time."

mommy22 · 09-17-2009, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by voivod

silly, i'm thinking of helping the female reach the end result. have never been with a woman thast didn't want the "boom goes the dynamite." it takes longer for most women to reach orgasm without foreplay, therefore "lonnnggg time."

definitely a long time or not at all

W/o foreplay it could take forever

michzz · 09-17-2009, 06:23 PM

Hmm, seems like a quickie doesn't presume the lady in question gets to finish.

Blaze · 09-17-2009, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Hater Hater

looks like a white girl (anglo) but down there she's like a roast beef sandwich, not good at all.

Omg, I don't think I've ever laughed harder.. my husband is looking at me like I'm nuts. hahaha... roast beef sammich.... geez, I'll never look at one the same way again, tyvm.

Oh, and FYI, I'm a WASP... and I'm not perfect looking "there" like a porn star. Neither is he though. We're just average/normal. But this isn't about looks "there" with hubby - he's just grossed out by the smell, moisture and feel.

Blaze

mrnice · 09-17-2009, 11:39 PM

Ok, im a bit like that.

I get slightly repulsed by down there.

When i first met my wife I used to go down on her regularly say once every 5 sex sessions. But Heres the thing, when I was down there on more then one occassion I thought I was seeing little bits of thick JIZZ which were really white in colour. Then I realised it was toilet paper. YUUUUUCK!!!!

I didnt' go down there for a long time and didn't tell my wife why. I just didn't want to tell her.

I have counselled myself over this and have made measures to rectify the mental scar i have.

Only recently have I been going back down there but doing it one of two ways. Using a Toy and getting up and close to it, I love looking at that part of her.

The other way is I have to be extremely horny and a bit drunk and I'll go down there for 5 minutes and that's it, but I love every second of those 5 minutes.

And it's always after she has a shower and not gone to the toilet.

Oh and If i get really drunk I turn into a 'porn star' the first thing I want to do is go DOWN TOWN on her until she cums if that means 20 minutes in down town then so be it!, I'll even run my toungue around her rear passage if that's what it means to get things going.

Lizzie60 · 09-18-2009, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by michzz

Hmm, seems like a quickie doesn't presume the lady in question gets to finish.

WOW.. I just can't believe people here..

Of course a quickie can be just as enjoyable for the woman.. not ALL women takes forever to cum...

I call it 'monkey love'... animalistic love.. whatever.. it's hot.

voivod · 09-18-2009, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Lizzie60

WOW.. I just can't believe people here..

people here are different than people anywhere else? pleeeze...

michzz · 09-18-2009, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Lizzie60

WOW.. I just can't believe people here..

Of course a quickie can be just as enjoyable for the woman.. not ALL women takes forever to cum...

I call it 'monkey love'... animalistic love.. whatever.. it's hot.

I know this, but the context of my answer was in the postings saying without foreplay they don't get there. So, the presumption that the lady is to get off during one seemed to be not so obvious.

Glad you are fortunate in that regard.

Star · 01-16-2010, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Blaze

Hello! - Newbie here.

Before I introduce myself completely and spill my (long) story, I have a question (that pertains to my situation) that I really need answered soon.

Brief background: In my 20 years of marriage, husband has touched me with his hands "down there" perhaps 5 times. Only once orally. He is clearly turned off by a woman's lower anatomy and moisture. Often he loses his (shall we say) "momentum" if his hand touches me there (with exception to guiding himself into me during intercourse). He has very little idea what my anatomy is like "there" other than where his male bits meant to naturally seek out. When I've tried (repeatedly) to encourage him to touch me with his hands (not asking for oral; heaven forbid), he says he is turned off by a woman's moisture and scent, is grossed out with the thought of touching anything in that region. He states it wouldn't matter who it was, he doesn't want to put his hands there. He says he knows "for a fact" that most men don't like that part of a woman. Somehow I doubt that, but that's his excuse to me. I need to know if this is true. In the meantime, after 20 years of not being touched - I'm going positively mad.

So here's the question.... Do men think "down there" on a woman is a turn off? I hope not or else I'm in trouble!!!

***(PS.. Newbie here. Didn't mean to blind anyone with the bold print originally. My bad, sorry.)