Star

Just need THAT throne now.

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63Vino

seek and yee shall find

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Star

Oh I'm seeking (or should that be seating?)

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63Vino

um.. is that like a job in the royal court that one could apply for?

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Star

If ONE has the right credentials, Yes!

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inctpl

Not at all. Been married over 20 years. Gradually we both came to enjoy oral on her. Now it is great for both of us and we usually start with long oral on her.

SimplyAmorous

I understand where you are coming from, after 20 years of marraige, my sexual desire has exploded, I never cared for Oral sex, I used to push him away. Now I love it, finally he is getting to explore without my inhibitions.

Yes, generally MOST men WANT to go there. Could be he has been sexually repressed in some areas (female parts are dirty)?? Hard to tell where he might have picked this up.
Or his 1st experiences were not good somehow?

I learned that taking fish oil capsules every day was not a good thing for the "taste" down there, it is good my husband was able to share this revelation & we figured it out, and I didn't get offended!

As your communication increases and he starts touching you more, maybe even a lick, make sure you are not taking fish oil capsules, you want to do anything you can to make sure the taste is exceptional. I have read eating pineapple is good for this. I know you said you dont care about that anyway, but it is still nice to dream!

Have him read some sex books with you, this might help him in this area.

Scannerguard

I love, love, love going down there. It's frankly my favorite act but I am going to share a secret -

It's like beer.

It's an aquired taste.

And I love beer.

I am going to say the first time I drank beer, I thought, "Why do people drink this stuff? I cannot imagine why anyone would voluntarily swill this stuff." But I was trying to be cool with some college buddies so I drank another one. A little better. Then another - mmmm. . .okay. . .I'm getting used to it.

By the 10th beer (not on the same night), I loved it. Nothing like a cool frosty one now and it's my drink of choice when at a bar.

It's the same thing with this. The first time, I admit, like beer, I gagged a little. But I hung in there. Second time, hmm. . .not so bad. By the fifth time, I loved it.

(see? "down there" even beat beer out with time to aquired taste )

He needs to aquire a taste for it and he'll practically insist on it.

Okay, this was a little "lockerroomish" and I didn't read all the previous posts but I thought I'd share.

tjohnson

I agree with other's previous posts to a point that most men do enjoy going down,,,keep in mind that diferent cultures, races etc may have different fellings toward going down on a women

Personally, I think is is wonderful and majical and you are trully missing out on a very intense experience but to each his own

But seriously, are there really men that get oral without giving? I have heard the opposite to be true

Scannerguard

My gf does it but I must admit, she even said she doesn't particularly enjoy it but she does it for foreplay (and I do admit I kinda need that particular foreplay - it's not like I used to be and the wind would blow and I get hard).

I suppose I'll never get off that way with her but as long as she does it for foreplay, I"m cool with 95% of the oral experience being for her. AFter all, really 60-70% of the intercourse experience is for me. I probably get more out of it than she does.

That's what sex is about - doing different things that please your partner.